Okay i have a boy-friend...he is so sweet and everything to me....but i can't help the feeling that he is being drawn to other girls...because they call him everynight!!! What do i do and how do I know weither he is still interested in me or not? And how do I know if he is cheating on me or not!!?!?!
2007-02-15 09:15:19 · 19 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure if he is cheating on me or not....i doubt it, but some girls call him like every night...so it kind of makes me wonder?
2007-02-15 09:25:16 · update #1
The girls that call him all the time are old girl-friends too! so does that mean anything? and they keep saying i am rude...but i can't help it!! and i am not rude it is just that i am getting suspicious and extrememly jelous and uncomfortable! What do i do??
2007-02-15 09:33:05 · update #2
Hi, That's the problem w/ b-ing w/ popular person! They get calls!
2007-02-18 14:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for the truth? Sit tight and you may just learn something. Some guys are going to chase pus*y until they day they die. Some guys aren't going to chase at all. Some guys will take what they are offered without exception while others will actually pass.
The first thing you have to do is figure out what kind of guy you have. You'll be able to tell by his actions. For all I know, from this vantage point he's an interesting guy that a lot of girls either like as a friend or maybe want more. Sometimes guys want what they can't have. They're like little boys who's dog ran down the street. They chase.
You could try making yourself unavailable to see what he does. But then that could backfire because there are guys that won't chase anyone because they figure if you're interested you'll take action.
If you want simple answers I can't give them to you. If you want a meaningful relationship it's a crap shoot at best. That requires effort and communication not to mention commitment.
2007-02-15 09:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really agree with many of the previous answerers. I've been married 30 years and I get phone calls from female friends. My wife would never hesitate to discuss this with me if it troubled her. I'd have a frank and open discussion with your boyfriend. Don't be accusatory. Tell him you really like him, but the phone calls bother you. Tell him how it makes you feel (insecure). Ask him to describe how he feels about the other girls. Then, believe him unless his actions show you otherwise. The bottomline is: you have a good reason to feel insecure in the relationship, but he deserves the opportunity to explain it.
2007-02-15 09:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him then there shouldn't be a problem. If nothing else talk about it. If he's a good guy then he'll understand. Just don't let jealousy take hold before you undertake some sort of action. Aslo just for the record once the trust is established you should relish the fact that you bf is in such high demand. Just think of all the girls who wish they had what you do.
2007-02-15 09:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by sd d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just wait and see, the last thing you want to do is start jumping to conclusions, but I would keep an eye on him. And most importantly I would confront him about all these girls calling, and tell him that it doesn't make you feel comfortable. Keep in mind he is allowed to have female friends but there is a point when you can call it cheating.
2007-02-15 09:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Count how many times he is getting called, compared to them calling him. DO NOT make any assumptions, if you assume he is cheating and he really isn't, you can kiss your relationship good-bye. IF he is cheating on you, he will have a hard time looking you in the eye, but some guys ALWAYS have difficulty looking girls in the eyes. See if he is acting guilty. It may simply be that other girls WANT him, but cannot get him.
2007-02-15 09:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by mjolnir1174293 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with him and discuss your feelings. Have him explain why other girls are calling him all the time. If he is unable or simply unwilling to talk about it, then it is time to leave. During the discussion, watch his body language and decide for yourself if he is truthful. If you can not trust him, then break it off. There is nothing that will destroy a relationship quicker than suspicions.
2007-02-15 09:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The simple truth is ask him. If he gets defensive or gets that blank look in his face you better just move on. Was he talking with all these girls before you met? Are they long time friends of his? If they are you are probably ok. If he's still giving his number out to girls he is just meeting he is probably shopping around!!!
2007-02-15 09:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by ian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only time a guy will ever concentrate his love entirely on you, and not even think of other girls is when he's completely in love with you...other than that, yeah other girls will distract us...but mostly we don't cheat...
2007-02-15 09:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to honest about how he feels about you, if he answer after a few seconds( remeber guys gotta think of what to say and how to) then he is tellin the truth 75% of the time, if he answers right away, then its 90% that he is lieing.
2007-02-15 09:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by JESTER 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋