We've been together only 8 months and he plans to move next year. I'll be in college still. He plans on moving when he graduates to live with his friend. He wants to stay together until then, but I think that 2 years together is a considerable amount of time, and it'll be really hard to say goodbye. There is no chance that I would be able to go with him.
2007-02-15 09:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by tara b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think to deprive yourself of being with someone bc they may be leaving is silly. Yes, it may be hard when he leaves, but a lot can happen in a year. Maybe he will decide to not move until you graduate. Maybe you will decide to relocate to be with him. Maybe you will both be willing to do the long distance thing. I think that you should jsut cross that bridge when you guys come to it. Don't deprive yourself of being happy now bc there could be a potential glitch a year down the road. You should see how it goes and make that call when he is actually leaving.
God luck and enjoy the time you have
2007-02-15 09:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So does that mean when he moves he wants to break up? If you guys are destined to break up then break up now. Ask him. But maybe if you guys really like each other, possibly love each other, and still want to be together then stay together. Make the long distance thing work. Who knows what will happen though if you dont give anything a chance.
2007-02-15 17:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be VERY hesitant to become emotionally attached to someone in such a situation. Is there no chance he may decide to stay? If he's firm and you're firm then perhaps a friendship would be more appropriate...why set yourself up for what's sure to be some heartache?
2007-02-15 17:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Men are supposed to pursue. If he really can't live without you he WILL come back, or
He will change his mind and not leave, or
make it possible for you to be together and not make you compromise what you want, change your life,
and continue what you have, otherwise he's just a selfish SOB.
No I would not date him however, I would keep it casual.
2007-02-15 17:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by ntk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my wife I was going to move 4 hours away from here, now I'm still here because she meant more to me than any move ever could.
2007-02-15 17:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it know on move on. Because he will be moving on once he graduated.
If you all are meant to be togather then somewhere some how you and him will fine each other. It will be hard but you have to move on.
Sign Rosina
2007-02-15 17:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rosina's Bridal & Decor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to move away to live with a friend more than he wants to make a life where he can be with you......there's a clue.
2007-02-15 17:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard..i know trust me. but long distance relationships work, they really do. on days that you dont have school or its a long break make arragments to see each other, call each other night. if you love him and he loves you and you guys dont want to end this relationship, then you'd do anything.
2007-02-15 17:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Emilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not calculated in distance
let him be far from u
but he will always be near you
in ur thoughts
if love him through depth of heart
if ur lovelife affects through distance
then its not true love
its infatuation
2007-02-15 17:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by celestial_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up now. I hate sappy goodbyes.
2007-02-15 17:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋