he cheated on me 4 times that i know of
2007-02-15 09:12:09 · 20 answers · asked by candadsmith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i was you i would have already left him
2007-02-15 09:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool to stay with this guy for so long. He has a penis and likes to use it....he will continue to cheat. What makes you think that he will change if he's already cheated on you 4 times? Get out now!
2007-02-15 17:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by TI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self Esteem. Pride in one's self. You need it if you have let a man do this to you more than the first (and should be last time!)
I would love to have a woman that loyal, not that I would ever cheat on a woman, I'm just saying it must be great to have that kind of loyalty (as far as the guy's concerned,) but you need to put yourself as the priority now, get your head put on straight, and move on to a REAL MAN (once you've worked out the issues).
Assuming you're cute or better, not fat, healthy (drug and disease free,) and have self esteem, I'm your man!
2007-02-15 17:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he wants is for you to continue believing he might change so he can go on doing what he whats without fear of reprisal. It was time to end that relationship after he first cheated. He will not change and if you stay with him, you will only get hurt again and again.
2007-02-15 17:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely get away from him if he cheated on you 4 times. that's a little too much to get away with. it doesn't matter, b/c he won't change. my last boyfriend said he would stop drinking b/c i didn't like it and supposedly i was more important than drinking, but he did it behind my back anyways. you can't make a guy change.
2007-02-15 17:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it:
do you think you have a future with this buy like marriage? No, you dont want a guy who cheats on you especially if it gets farther. You are not in love with him for him. He is a jerk. And as bad as it may sound you are probably in love with him for a more superstitial reason.
Find someone who is loyal to you and you love. Find someone you can picture a future with.
Good luck!
2007-02-15 17:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Chat Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN. if a man can't respect you enough to tell you that he is no longer feeling you then let it go. If you know of 4 times then i assure you that it has been at least 8-12 times that you have no idea about.
2007-02-15 17:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will have to decide to change and you can't change him. If you really care about him I suggest talking to him about the problem and trying to work through it. If he is going to continue to cheat on you then there is not much point of continuing, hopefully you two can work through it.
2007-02-15 17:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him for two reasons. One, you deserve better than being treated like this and two, there are too many STDs out there to risk having an unfaithful partner. Trust me, your love for him won't be all that deep when he finally gives you AIDS.
2007-02-15 17:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by fanciful me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I live by this motto: "Once a cheater, always a cheater." And four times? That you KNOW of? C'mon, honestly, sweety -- would you even WANT that in your bed again? Er, ew.
2007-02-15 17:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kittiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love and respect yourself more than you love him, that's what. If he does not love you enough to honor you in the relationship, then you need to leave him. It will hurt yes, but you will leave with your dignity and self respect intact.
2007-02-15 17:17:29 · answer #11 · answered by Jouvert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋