For example, to help with funeral expenses...
2007-02-15 09:12:07 · 17 answers · asked by mx3baby 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
just what they need, not what they want.
2007-02-15 09:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by yaabro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of such a custom. I would think it may be a bit condescending to give money to help with expenses unless you are family or extremely close. A family may sometimes specify a charity for you to donate to in lieu of flowers but would never ask for cash. If a third party organization is raising money for the family, make whatever donation feels comfortable and affordable to you.
2007-02-15 09:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've honestly never heard of that nor have seen it in practice. Where I'm from they either send flowers or bring food & of course a card to offer their sympathy. Only family members offer to help with funeral expenses as far as I know.
2007-02-15 09:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm.. funeral expenses can be quite high.. anywhere from 5-10 thousand bucks. If u are serious about helping .. and if u can afford it as well, then aim as high as u can go!
2007-02-15 09:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any amount you would like to give is appropriate. When my son died, a few gave only $5 and it was very welcomed.
2007-02-15 23:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I lost a baby girl back in Aug and we recieved amounts ranging from $50-$100 from several people. Whatever you can afford to give is greatly appreciated by whomever is paying for the funeral.
2007-02-15 09:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You give what you are able to without putting yourself into a financial problem. Any small amount you can give will be appreciated. Depending on your relationship to this family and how well you know them you may be able to offer them some other kind of help if they need it. Take care.
2007-02-15 09:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Val 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The sky is the limit. The minimum would be around $20.
2007-02-15 18:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
around thirty or fourty... especially if it was a bf husband or parent... sibling or friend give whatever you feel like i say this b/c you dont want to be flashy saying that you have so much money... but you want to help.... just give condolances you don't need to make them charity cases. if you feel they need extra help (say they have kids) give a little more like fifty or sixty.. hope it helps!!
2007-02-15 09:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by movie guru, tv master 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most people are so consumed with grief that they can't even spell their names correctly so I doubt the amount would even phase them.
2007-02-15 09:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Polynomial 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't give money unless you are immediate family. The only thing they need is support and perhaps a meal or company.
2007-02-15 09:39:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋