So i have dated a guy a total of 3 times. We talk almost every day and now he wants me to be exclusive with him. Do you think it is too soon for this? Because I am not ready. What should i do? or say to him?
2007-02-15 09:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Nina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf and I both agreed on the second date to it being exclusive - but we're older and have both been married & divorced. If you are not ready for it to be mutually exclusive just tell him that.
2007-02-15 09:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, then tell him that. It's only "too soon" if one person feels it is, and that's perfectly natural.
Just tell him, "I really like you, but I'm just not ready for that level of commitment yet. Can we keep dating for awhile and see what develops? I promise to let you know as soon as I'm ready for the next stage in our relationship."
Same thing happened to me once, but he ended up having major anxiety issues relating to his cheating ex-girlfriend, and wasn't willing to wait until I was ready. Hopefully your guy is more patient!
2007-02-15 17:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with that sucker. Tell him "It ain't gonna happen."
Tell him you prefer to enjoy life before you get knocked up.
2007-02-15 17:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready...tell him
if he loves you...he will understand and respect that
2007-02-15 17:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i, like, like you, but i'm, like, really scared! i mean, like, you're totally hot and i'm like, digging you, but like, i still want to have fun, like, you know?
2007-02-15 17:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by only p 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋