the worst part, they've been childhood friends so i feel like if i tell her to stop ill be like, taking away their friendship, but she's been taking it a bit too far, && ive already spoken with her about it but nothing has changed, and she's done this ever since we've been going out (15 months), and she always uses the excuse that they're just friends and blah blah, you probably know that story, and she even asked him out while were still together and he said no, and hes not interested but she wont freakin leave him alone...o please help me idk what 2 do a/b her?? <3
2007-02-15 09:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by Lady Sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it. If he doesn't respond to her flirting, she will eventually give it up. All he has to do is tell her that he has a girlfriend and doesn't appreciate her flirting with him. That he feels it is disrespectful to his relationship and any friend really would want to respect that.
2007-02-15 09:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you getting stressed about? All you're doing is flirting. You're in the UK. Last time I checked both of you can flirt there all you want without any serious repercussions. The worst thing that can happen is her family tells her to stop flirting back. You're thinking about this too much.
2016-05-24 04:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your boyfriend say about it? If he is only interested in you, let her have her fun and flirt with him. If he isn't responding to it, then it isn't your problem. Maybe she just likes the attention you are giving her about it. You are mad at her for flirting so she is going to keep doing it. Think about this, she is probably just upset cause her best guy friend has a girlfriend and doesn't spend as much time with her as they used to. She is probably just J and trying to get even with you. Don't let it bother you if your man is with you.
2007-02-15 09:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is bothering you alot and if he lets this keep happening then find one or your guy friends that you have known for a long time and have him do the same thing and see how your boyfriend feels then.
2007-02-15 09:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she's not you're friend. If you trust you're boyfriend you have nothing to worry about. Laugh at her, because she's the one making herself look like a fool!
I've been there done that...not worth being mad about. Trust me. Just ignore her and tell you're boyfriend to ignore her and she'll get over it.
2007-02-15 09:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really do anything about her. She's going to do what she wants to.
The real question is why does this bother you?
If you and your boyfriend have a solid relationship then it won't matter. If you have confidence in your relationship, there's nothing that she can do that will tarnish it.
2007-02-15 09:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 you can tell your boyfreind to stay away from her 2 tell the gril to stop flirting with him 3 if ur boyfreind isn't flirting back then you dont need to worry about anything!
2007-02-15 09:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Squeeze is permitting this to go on. Make him end it! You stay clear!
2007-02-15 09:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch that hoe in the face... lol but seriously, I'd confront her about it. Be assertive but not b****y about it...
2007-02-15 09:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Future Marine Sniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!!!That is hardddd!!!Tell that girl,"HELLO!!!!This is MY boyfriend not yours!!I understand that you all have been friends for lord knows how long but he likes me!!As a girlfriend.So back off!!"That should do it.
2007-02-15 09:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋