Does anybody else think that sometimes Women can be too sexy to be sexy?

Question

I sometimes see women who are really sexy and all I can think is that they are cheap and fake.

Now I'm not saying I go for really ugly women but I prefer women that look real and natural (not hairy legs or arms though lol) compared to women who look great because of make up or jewelly.

I just think that the thing that can make a women unsexy is being too sexy.

Anybody understand that and also feel like that?

Answer 1

i believe that if you try too hard to fit into the standard "sexy", that is very un-sexy. the sexiest women are those who dont even try.

Answer 2

This feeling you are struggling with is called maturity.

This is what happens when men suddenly realise that women having to dress and act in a way that is not natural to them is an image and not real.

It becomes more than that because men realise that women are so amazing that they will put up with all sorts of nonsense because they have a maturity that has been built in to their psyche over a period of several thousand years.

The reason women who do all the so called sexy things become unsexy....is because they are something far more important than sexy....they are beautiful...and funny...and strange...and confusing...and clever...and superior...and generous...and forgiving...and ....well...women!

Answer 3

I know what you mean and I agree with you.

There is a natural beauty, not much make up or fancy clothes sexy (which we like).

And there is the not so great looking girl who spends tons of cash on make up and clothes that cover but expose a lot. What I call cheap and trashy kind of sexy. Paris Hilton would fit in this category.

Answer 4

There is a difference between looking sexy and looking like a scrubber....unfortunately many guys can't tell the difference (until the following morning when the make up has rubbed off).

Natural is the way forward.....

Answer 5

That's a really good theory you've got there. Look at women (girls?) like Paris Hilton. She wastes so much time trying to be sexy that she ends up being completely unattractive. (Of course, she looks like a rodent no matter what, but still.)

Answer 6

As someone who goes with both men and women all I can say is that a woman can never be too sexy.......

That's the great thing about dating women and men, you get to appreciate the best in both sexes.
And no, I don't think a woman can be too sexy.....

Answer 7

I guess what you're trying to say is that if women try to hard at looking sexy...they look unsexy......but if they just let their inner sexy spirit flow out naturally....then it's really sexy.. lol it's confusing....but i agree :)

Answer 8

Well that all depends on what is sexy to you really dont it!!! Iv been told that to alot of men, sexy, is not necessarily a vision. Its the way a woman carries herself and projects herself. The way she speaks, walks, holds herself etc etc. Grace, elegance, class demure etc etc. Also confidence can be sexy, as can elusiveness. Some men find natural earthy women sexy, some prefer brassy blonds, some fiery foxes.. sex appeal is what you see... your interpretation.. and thats all there is to it!!!!!

Answer 9

So, what you think is sexy is a more natural woman, one that is not fake and cheap looking.That is what a lot of men think is sexy.

I think the fake and cheap women say "sex, sex, sex" to men by the way they groom and dress. So men, not needing to be reminded of sex anyway, just get turned on by the advertising. It is kind of like when you see a hamburger commercial on TV you want to zip down to Burger King.

You just happen to be more resistant to the advertising.

Answer 10

There's a fine line between looking sexy and looking s.lutty.