My girlfriend (or soon to be ex-girlfriend) wanted to break up and be alone for a year so that she could "find herself and grow up as an adult". I have asked her if she wanted a "break from the relationship" but she says she can't do it. She calls me every other day to tell me we should be together because it is the right thing and then breaks up with me the following evening because she thinks it will be good for US (not just her). Now she told me to leave her the hell alone. I have no idea what to think or do. Please help!!
2007-02-15 08:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mr Marvel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a man and resolve the situation yourself. Leave her alone so she can find herself. She will soon realize that she had somethng good. You need someone who is deserving of you. Don't allow yourself to be a door mat for her. Don't allow her behavior to ruin your image on relationships either. Focus on just you now, go out and do something good for yourself or somebody else but please leave her completely alone.
2007-02-15 08:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're better off to stay the hell away from her! She sounds like she's playing games and doesn't sound too serious about your relationship. Tell her to make up her damn mind, or YOU make up her mind for her. You don't need that. There are plenty other girls out there.
2007-02-15 08:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think your girlfriend, or ex gf, is very confused and maybe even playing games with you. Its not that hard to decide if you like someone enough to make it work, or not. I think you should let her take that year off to grow up cause it sounds like she needs it.
Sorry.
2007-02-15 08:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ash S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like every time she meets a boy she might like, she tells you to go to hell while she pursues him. then that doesn't work out, she comes back to you... and so forth. you need to move on bro
2007-02-15 08:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if she keeps breaking up with you....then...i dont think she's worth your love then! there is someone out there perfect for you..who wont ever have any doubts...just sit tight...and you'll find her
2007-02-15 08:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has major issues, please leave her alone. she don't know her *** from her elbow!!!
It is either these FOUR:
-She is going threw somethings and not happy with herself.
-Had a crazy past/could have been abused (never know).
-Bi polar or sometype of imbalance mentually.
-dealing with someone else.
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-15 08:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HER
SHE SOUNDS REALY WEIRD
2007-02-15 08:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋