Wat do i do?
2007-02-15 08:30:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a guy bigger than you.
2007-02-15 08:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by calcio10 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever heard of a...DIET?! (And, exercise?!)
Hey, I am kidding around. Ok?
If you ARE seriously sick, you should, of course, try to get some medical help. Because, if you are THAT overweight that a guy cannot be found (and guys are pretty desperate), you might consider the other side of the coin: what if a guy does fall in love with you and then you get really sick because of your condition; how will that affect HIM, how will HE feel. Did you ever consider that?
If you are NOT that overweight. Don't worry about it. You have just not been hanging around the right kind of people. People are really accepting of different kinds of people. It is the inside that counts. It is true!! But, if you are not that overweight, than, seriously, a little exercise and a proper diet is the least you can do to fix yourself up.
FIRST go to the videostore and rent "Rear Window," "The Man Who Knew Too Much," and some other 1950s movies. LOOK at the women--granted, you can't approach Grace Kelly but...--LOOK at HOW they cared about their appearance. Americans are becoming too LAZY about appearance. Then, complain when someone doesn't find them attractive. All animals--don't forget, that's what we ARE--have to ATTRACT the opposite sex. It is the RESPONSIBILITY of the animal.
Sure, inside is what counts. Eventually, you can ALWAYS someone who believes that so inherently that he won't even think twice about you if he sees the beauty inside. But, if you ARE in a hurry, try to fix yourself up. That will work, guaranteed.
Either way, DON'T GIVE UP!!
2007-02-16 02:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by joe m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are bigger doesnt mean that you wont find someone that will like you for you. If your weight is a problem in your eyes, try to tone down a bit. I wouldnt do it because you want a man in your life, but do it for yourself. When i was much larger guys wouldnt talk to me, in fact some would be even downright rude. Now that i am much smaller the same ones who were rude are now nice to me- GO FIGURE!! Anyways- those are the guys you dont want.
any guy who doesnt want you now shouldnt want you later. Take care of yourself, get healthy and then you canfind someone. but liek i said dont make that the only goal for you. Make your health the goal.
You have to love yourself before others can love you back.
2007-02-15 16:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lina, Your weight shouldn't matter if you fine someone who like's the person inside of you. If you are really up tight with your weight,start jogging every day and if you have a swimming pool,swim every day this is good for your whole body.Also bike riding 3 times a week. Plus you have to cut all sodas and sugars out of you eating habits. Drink a lot of water, bottle spring water is the best. Wal-mart has bottle spring water it is their brand and will cost you less. Stick to this and you will star losing weight. You can do it,if you stay with the plan. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-15 16:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on a reputable weight loss program. Lets face it honey, big girls only have a chance with the "leftover"guys. If you dont mind settling for less than you really want just do nothing.
The lessons taught in the movie Shallow Hal aside, you have to face reality. If you cant get a guy to take a look you will never get him to meet the beautiful person inside.
2007-02-15 16:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone. Just do not settle or become needy. The most attractive thing about a women is confidence.
The next thing is take care of yourself, dress well, do your makeup right. If you know how to look your best you stand a better chance of finding what you are looking for. I am a man I should know!
2007-02-15 16:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by thehaf2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should accept you for who you are and not how much you weigh. But unfortunately some guys aren't like that. But don't be discouraged, all guys aren't like that. Hopefully, you will find one of the good ones. If you want to lose the weight do it for you. Don't do it to make a guy like you. Good luck.
2007-02-15 16:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was over weight and a guy finally saw her for the nice person she is. She fell in love with him and it got her to lose 50 pounds. They got married 2 months ago. He's out there!
2007-02-15 16:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the number one turn off for guys is overweight women. I do not mean a little over weight most people can over look that - obese is almost never acceptable. You will have to lose weight.
2007-02-15 16:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen whats a few extra pounds as long as its not extremeley obese, i like full figured women myself, but if you want to lose weight do it for yourself and no one else, not even for a guy, i used to go 300pds, and am now 195pds, and fit, i did it for myself, i didnt want to end up at 42 looking 9 months pregnet, dont pay to lose, get your friends together, go hiking, walking, whatever it takes, in time youll feel a hole lot better about yourself and it wont take as long as you think. Good luck.
2007-02-15 16:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm im not overweight but im definitely not a skinny guy either. if the guys are to shallow to look past ur weight (overweight doesnt mean unnatractive) then they dont deserve you. you should just talk to a lot of people and try to find someone. good luck.
2007-02-15 16:35:42 · answer #11 · answered by nobody 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋