found women of my dream is married on valentine's day?

Question

i have a crush on this women for about 2 months and "seeing" her everyday (she works in a restaurant).On valentine's day,i made the bold move by giving flower cause i did not want to wait any longer.To my dismay, i found out she is married and her husband is also working in the same restaurant.Now probably the whole restaurant staff knows about it.I have apologised,but i do not want to cause any conflict to any relationship (them),while not willing to stop visiting the same restaurant cause its one of my favourite. what should i do?

the reason i made the bold move was becasue my previous attempt about 3 years ago with another woman did not succeed because i lack aggressiveness according to the woman.I learnt this time but took it a little too far.I felt embarrased and stupid.

Answer 1

Play it off. No big deal. Don't sit in her section anymore, though. Oh, and bring a date next time you visit the restaurant....show that you've moved on.

Answer 2

I would continue visiting the same restaurant. That was a bold move that you made and you should be thrilled that you took that step. if anything the staff would give you your props just b/c u made such a bold move! i mean how were u supposed to know that she was married! dont worry about it,,,,walk in there with ur head held high and go on bout ur business!!!

Answer 3

I found out TODAY that a girl I adore at the coffee shop I frequent is in an involved relationship. I feel your pain!

Definitely keep going to the restaurant. Be friendly to her still, but also be friendly to the other staff. It's really admirable when you can kind of get turned down but still show that you're a genuine guy. The only way you'd be creating problems for them is if he's a total controlling ***, in which case she might divorce him and.... :-)

Answer 4

Just keep on going and as long as you pay for the meal who cares.....besides although you can't have right now you can still look!!

I said right now because you never know when things may change and maybe she will take on your offer......but don't stop your life for her.......there are millions of women out there to keep you busy while she is in the relationship!!!

Good luck....oh, if you were into a new relationshipa and she asked if you were available would you drop the other new person for her? Just out of curiosity and seeing if playing for now is best for you........Only take hotter women to this same restaurant because regardless of whatever situation they are in....women are very very competitive....it may push for somehting fun to happen between the two of you!!

Have fun always!!

Answer 5

You took a bold step but she is married that does not mean you should stop visiting the restaurant, you have already said you were sorry. If they are not willing to let it go that is there problem not yours, just be yourself and enjoy your food.

Answer 6

Hey nothing ventured nothing gained. I am sure that she appreciated the gesture and it wasn't overdone. You brought her a flower not knowing. It's done. Now you know. There is no reason for you to feel awkward or having to bring a date or any of that. Take it in good humor. Sorry your valentines day went so bad tho'. Wouldn't it be something tho' if the lady of your dreams shows up in the same favorite restaurant. Ya gotta keep going.

Answer 7

For the time beeing, I would not go back there until I feel confortable. Meanwhile, you can always order "Take Out". That might work for the craving.

Answer 8

if she,s married forget her and avoid problems.her husband will eventually find out so its best to look elsewhere for someone single as yourself.

Answer 9

yew have already done what yew can by apoligizing, anyone who wants more than that is crazy, keep going, hope it gets less awkward.

Answer 10

im very sorry about the way it happened...but it is best to leave her new marrige allone