So i've had many talks w/ my boyfriend about being better to me, ya kno, the little things... and it hasn't worked. So my friend said shes going to talk to him about it and remind him of how easy i am to make happy, and to not put his truck before me (he loves his truck, its his baby). again, its the little things, and most girls know what i mean by that. My friend who is gunna talk to him is also one of his really good friends, but also his ex (they dated for about three months a couple years ago) but its all good cuz we are all really good friends... is this a good idea?? or not??
2007-02-15 08:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a bad idea to even be going out with this guy... he's not that into you if he doesn't show you that he appreciates you and he spends more time with his truck!!! And you can't make him change, I don't know why people haven't learned this yet, but you can't change people! But you can change yourself, break up with him and find someone who will appreciate you.
2007-02-15 08:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lousy idea. Your boyfriend is the way he is period. Either you accept him as he is (he is NOT going to change) or you end the relationship and move on and find someone who is what you are looking for. If this guy isn't what you want you're not doing either one of you any good by hanging onto the relationship. Give it up.
2007-02-15 08:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap. If he can put an inanimate object above someone he calls a girlfriend, then this will not end up working. Won't matter what your friend says...you need to get off his back and out of the relationship.
2007-02-15 08:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to change the person and accept them for who they are or find what you really want
2007-02-15 08:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋