I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago and i still feel like I am in love with him still. He tells me he loves me and huggs me when he sees me and I have no idead what to do. I want to get over him but I always end up thinking about him. I broke it off for the worest reason ever to.
2007-02-15 08:11:54 · 23 answers · asked by turttle_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What were the reason you broke up with the guy? Are you in love with him? Is he in love with you? You are making then worse for yourself. Follow your heart. What do you want? If you want him back and he wants you back...then get back together. But if you don't think you want in a relationship with him then just give yourself time.
2007-02-15 08:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont put your self in a deeper, sadder felling by watching sad romantic movies or listening to sad music, that will make you feel worse.Instead watch non romatic comedies and listen happy go lucky music.That always helps me. I also had a friend who broke it off with her fiance and felt really bad about it and kept talking about it! That will make you feel worse. So i think just see it as a new door opening and take your time if your hoping to find another guy. Good luck!
2007-02-15 16:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by I<3Apollo Anton Ohno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the worst break up. Everyone is still friends but not together. Never seems like closure and a final end. So you have to limit your availability to seeing him. Get involved in some new friends, groups and start getting on with your life. Fake it until one day you realize its over. Good luck.
2007-02-15 16:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be a grown up and talk to the man and tell him you screwed up and for all the wrong reasons. Ask him to forgive you and move on. Life is to short to sit back and wish you could fix this.. It's all in your hands, so what are you going to do with it.
2007-02-15 16:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by tmjf461 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to hang out with friends and mingle.If you can,(if your old enough)go to a club and meet some new people(guys).And time mend a boken heart especially if you have guys on your arm.
2007-02-15 17:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really the best thing to do if you want to get over him is to kinda not talk to him so much.. nothing mean.. just limit convo and contact.. but it sounds to me like you miss him and he misses you.. and you said you broke up with him for the "worstest reason ever" then obviously you regret it.. maybe you should stop trying to get over him and give him another chance.. if you ended it for a petty reason, then give it another go.. you never know..
<3 Mo
2007-02-15 16:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever we are trying to get over someone it isn't wise to keep seeing them as it just makes us sad and mourn for the relationship we thought we had. if u broke it off u had good reason to, and u just have to accept the facts, seeing him only brings u pain so don't see him anymore if u want to move past this.
2007-02-15 16:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break it off? If it really wasn't worth it, then get back together. What's the worst that can happen? You get back together, and then eventually break it off for a good reason? Fine. Don't make yourself unhappy if you don't have to.
2007-02-15 16:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Snicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up if you still love him. Did he want you to do something you were not happy about. Talk to him, explain why you split up, and if you are to get back together, make sure you both know where you stand. No one up manship or saving face. Be up front and go for it again!!
2007-02-15 16:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need to give him another chance. If you really want to get over him then letting him hug you and get so close is not helping. You will need time apart that is for sure.
Do me a favor and go answer my top question.
Thanks
2007-02-15 16:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋