weve were friends for a year....and george always used to tell me how pretty i was, and how much he loved me...but we never dated...and i trusted him to be there when noone else would..we even planned on spending the rest of our lives together..
then kayla came into the picture, and she had a BIGTIME crush on him..and he started to tell her the same things, that she was so pretty and if he didnt have a gf he would date her..and she would rub it in my face..
I asked george about it, and since then he doesnt call me or even try to talk to me..he is flirting with her just like he did me...and i just relized im jelous because i was in love with him..now, he broke up with his girlfriend and is about to date kayla..(thats what kayla says and i dont doubt it)
So he is a player..and i doubt if anything he ever told me was true...but i love him..and i cant stop...Do you think anything he told me was real? or was he just using me because i was there? what can i do to stop loving him??
2007-02-15 08:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im moving soon, and i want to see him before i go....but i dont because im so mad at him and i dont want to look weak or compulsive incase he is making fun of me behind my back.....
should i talk to him before i leave or just try to forget about him? Its so hard to forget about him, i love him so much and every second i try not to think about it i feel like im loving him more....
2007-02-15 08:14:22 · update #1
Yes, you need to see him before you leave and you need to tell him that you love him and that you're really pissed at him. This will let him know you are a real woman. He may not love you and he may have played you but if you're honest with him he'll have to respect you which will make you more attractive to him. As far as thinking about him goes, keep thinking about him and not being with him. Let it sting. Because believe it or not, if you're honest with yourself about your feelings and desires even when you don't want them or think they're wrong, you get over them much quicker than supressing them and lying to yourself. It's kinda like alcohol on a cut. You know it's gonna hurt but if you go ahead and do it, you also know it will get better.
2007-02-15 08:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. There's this guy Matt and he does the EXACT same thing to me and my best friend Miranda. I fell for him and I still have feelings for him but just talking can help u and show him how u feel. It can be hard wen u love someone and he flirts A LOT with other girls. I hope u solve ur problem!!
2007-02-15 16:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by linalovesmatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and move on. If he doesn't call or try to talk then he is not worth it. There are tons more guys out there that are better than this loser.
We always want what is out of reach. Understand this and move on.
2007-02-15 16:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect Timing.
Use him the way he used you. If he's using the same lines on someone else, what he told you can't be true, especially with how he treats you now.
Use him as your boy toy now. Get that one last fling in before he's gone for good.
2007-02-15 16:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen......u dont love him. the same hapened to me. move on. he used u cause he didnt have anything else to do. guys are jerks and will always be. just its life get over him he is a jerk and u dont need him. u never loved him. u may have liked him but u never love jerks that lie. all guys lie its life
2007-02-15 16:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes just using YOU.
2007-02-15 16:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel
2007-02-15 16:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋