I went to Pittsburgh last weekend and went out to a club on saturday night. A hot guy comes up to me & says "Oh my god you're so sexy". We started talking, bought me a drink & stayed with me the rest of the night. We clicked right away, he had a great conversation & kept saying how pretty I was. I told him I was from Maryland & was just visiting. He was dissapointed but stayed w/ me over that fact. Anyway, we closed the club down & he walked me to my car. When we got to the car I really didn't think he was going 2 ask for my phone number but he did! He called me later to find out if I made it home & said he enjoyed being w/ me. He even called me the next day to say bye (it was sunday, i had to come back) & asked me to call him when I get home. Next day he sends me a txt say "good morning sexy". I really like this guy too and he's SO hot, but I really don't think this would work out...what do you guys or girls think? I mean I guess I'd come out there again or he'd come out here...
2007-02-15 07:57:31 · 5 answers · asked by Dama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but what are the chances for us to keep a relationship? I really want this guy, he seems respectful to me and he talks like a gentleman. He's 27 and I'm 22 so it's perfect! Please any advice?! Thanks!
2007-02-15 07:58:35 · update #1
our conversation was stuff about us, he asked about me and I asked about him. He's a cop and I know his parents actually live here in MD...so we did kind of talk about each other, he didn't seem like a weird person...
2007-02-15 08:19:21 · update #2
Natasha is right. Better play hard to get, at least somewhat. If he gives up, he was just looking to get some off a beautiful sexy lady. If he persists for weeks without getting weird about it, then give it a try.
You need not be afraid to try, if you are prepared to fail. Long-distance relationship odds are not good. If you're the "oh, well, that's life" type, good. If you're the "I'm so heartbroken I could just die!" type, not a good gamble!
Good luck!
2007-02-15 08:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by RH Arizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ,chip here and i think you need to do a background check on him for one thing.just to know he doesn't have a record of any kind and or for what if he does,all guys seem really interested in a girl for awhile ,yet if all he can do is think of pretty you look for something to say ,like all girls want to hear all day ,lol,maybe he is not looking deep enough at the real you inside to say that is pretty aswell as the out side.use good judgment on this one and don't wast to much time on what could have been.thanks for listening to me ,yours truly chip.
2007-02-15 08:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by chip d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..i wish i could be you right now. if he's trully what you say, then definatly try and make it work. maybe you should set up some times to meet someplace and see if he's any different around you when you're not at a club (booze affect). he's seems like a real gentleman. it all depends on distance relationships...but def. try to set things up
2007-02-15 08:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by marina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful, he sounds like a smoothie|
The reason being, he did things in such quick succession, and swept you off your feet|
If someone is *really* meant for you, the process is always much slower and much more natural, which involved getting to know *you.* which is a process that takes time|
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2007-02-15 08:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. he seems really sweet. but i think he may be a bit too obsessive over you. my advice? start playing hard to get hunny!
xxnat
2007-02-15 08:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by MAC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋