My bestfriend and I have been talking about how we like eachother. We talk about us and a relationship in the future. I am a little confused though, as to whether I like him as my bestfriend or more. What kinds of things can I ask myself to see what my feelings are about him. Do I like him more? Thanks a bunch!!
Happy belated Valentines day!
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2007-02-15 07:54:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay this might sound weird but it alwayed worked for me i made a list of things u like about him and what u dont like about him and see which is long and if u cant do that try comparing him to someone that u think that u like and wut u do is if u have a longer list for the other guy then him then u have problems and that mean that u dont like him more than a friend........so try it it might work
2007-02-15 08:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Belated Valentine's Day to you too. I would suggest you take some time and think about your feelings whether they are like feelings for a brother or feelings a future husband. You could make a list of all your feelings and ask yourself why I like that about him and whether it could be something you could deal with in a relationship. I hope I was some help.
2007-02-15 08:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed and Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you know him as well as a best friend should, then if this was going to develop into a relationship, you should be feeling the difference, without asking that question. You would feel it in your bones, your heart and your head. But if you think that defining your friendship as a relationship may help you see if those feelings are buried in the background somewhere, then i think you should take the chance. It may be the move of your life, but if the need to be with him is not that strong, dont wait too long before moving on.
2007-02-15 08:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself can u see yourself with this person for the long hall, is it worth the loss of his friendship if things end badly? Are your feeling for him like ones u would have for a brother/father/uncle? I wish you luck in figuring this out, I know how are it can be to lose a best friend when the relationship has gone bad. Of course in any relationship there will always be a risk.
2007-02-15 08:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think or know that you only want to be(spend time) with him? Do you think of him everyday (several times a day)? Do you only want the best for him, even if that's not you? Do you have a peaceful (for the most part) harmonious relationship. Are you happy and contented in the relationship?
2007-02-15 08:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend ship is a toy ship that is your friend. Normally plastic.
A relationship is a close connection with a loved one. Normally human, sometimes plastic.
2007-02-15 07:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things u could ask urself...could i see myself with this person....could i marry this person...more importantly...IF me and this person enter into a relationship, is it work possibly losing our friendship if it doesnt work out.
often people start to feel an attraction to their best friend because they know this person so well and this person knows them so well. u just have to decide if u like him as more than a friend and if its worth it.
good luck
2007-02-15 07:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by chickenbuttoch2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly he misunderstood ur dating. possibly he enjoyed u and u did no longer additionally be conscious. possibly you're able to communicate this out with him, tell him u nonetheless desire 2 be acquaintances with him. whether, do no longer ask If he enjoyed u. that could make him mad. in basic terms comprehend on your head he probualy needs 2 spend extra time with u.
2016-09-29 04:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to think about it, you really don't want more. If you wanted more, there would be no question in your mind.
2007-02-15 08:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by BLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just spend some more time with him, time will tell...
2007-02-15 08:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋