im worried?

Question

okay i am a type of person taht doesnt worri abut things and i wuldnt do anything im not supposed to do but lately i have been doing a lot of things ppl wuldnt think i wuld do and some of these things arent that great but it has to do with my life and i dont know how to deal with it without talking to my rents or a friend with them out flipping but i for sure need help but i want help that i can do and not let ppl know that i am doing wut i am is this possible to get help with something without welling ur rents or friends........? if so i need to know how cuz wut i am doing needs to stop before i hurt myself way to much...............

to let ya know wut i am doing i am cutting

Answer 1

First of all, learn how to spell. Now you need a psychologist to figure out what is going on. You need help thru a Dr. You need medication. Looking at your writing tells me you are very young. Tell your parents or talk to a school counselor, they can intervene and get you the help you need. Meanwhile, I will pray for you. God bless, take CARE!

Answer 2

Okay you are obviously trying to deal with an overwhelming situation, feeling. You do need to go and see a professional person and I commend you for recognising that what is happening for you is too much to share with friends.
A counsellor, Doctor are trained to help you and will not sit in judgement. From my experience when people deliberately 'hurt' themselves as you are it is because physical pain is easier to deal with than emotional pain. If we have a physical injury it can be seen and we can understand why we feel the pain and why it hurts. When it is inside of us only we know the pain and how much it hurts.
Seek help now so you can work through this pain and heal yourself. Remember you are special and uniquely you, you have friends who you have shown to have respect for which in turn means you respect yourself.
You need to take the very best care of you in the same way you would a friend who was having troubles.
Please find help, best wishes to you.

Answer 3

You need to have somebody to talk to. Maybe you could talk to a therapist or counselor and that might help. It was helpful to me just to have somebody who you know will keep all your secrets and someone who it's okay to cry in front of. If you attend a church maybe you could talk to someone there (i.e. a pastor, church counselor, just someone else who attends). The sooner you stop hurting yourself the better because the longer you do it, the harder it is to stop. There are also many support groups on yahoo that might be helpful to you and you would be able to talk to people dealing with the same stuff as you and get support that way.

Answer 4

when i was in high school my best friend was very depressed and started cutting. he finally turned to me when he thought that it was going too far, and despite my initial shock i understood and we got him the help he needed. so if you have a best friend who loves you and understands you then i would tell him/her first. they can be supportive and help you get the care you need. but if you're too scared to tell a friend then perhaps your school counselor can help. they'll keep it confidential and help you find the right person or people to get you back on the right track. i feel really bad that you are going through this but the most important thing to do is to tell someone really anyone that you think you can trust so you can get help. good luck

Answer 5

All i can say is you need to tell someone, whether it be a close friend or a trustworthy adult. Hurting yourself isn't making you solve any problems with your life, or making you feel better, so why put yourself through pain. You can stop. Get some help hun.

Good luck.

Answer 6

you are the only one that can help yourself, no one can help you if you don't want to let people know what they are suppose to help you with, if they are your friends they will help you with out question, but i think you need to seek medical help