Should I stay in college?

Question

Okmy problem is this, I don't think I was quite ready for college and I feel that was pushed into it by my mother, I'm paying for most of my tuition my boyfriend is helping me pay for it cuz i have a job tht doesnt pay great, and i missed classes all this week because I have been sick, and Im going to be getting my tonsils out and that goin to be another 2 weeks out of school Im already failing my classes but I dont want to withdraw from school because parents want me to stay in school I have no idea as to why Im in school for besides the fact that my parents want me there any advice? im 19 and i pay the tuition

* at the college I am atteding withdraw means I can go back and have that same classes with the same grades big difference from dropping out, and I do plan on goin back I just think I'm ready for college and I feel like I was pushed into it wasn't something that I wanted for me specifically it was to keep mom happy.

Answer 1

Don't quit now.
Talk to your teachers NOW and they can give you an incomplete, with is much better than a withdraw or bad grade.
That way you can retake the course and get the grade.

I really don't think that at 19. You can really determine HOW important a college degree is in your life. Why, you have not lived enough to know, how woman suffer without a great education and it will really get you a better job in any field.

Go talk to the counselor at the college. they are there to help you.
PLEASE. As a woman. I want you to succeed. Hope you feel better sweetie.

Answer 2

Don't let this opportunity get away. I am 36 years old an are trying to finish because I thought I could always "finish later" "don't need it" You can do it just see if you can get help somewhere they have people that can help you at your school but do it NOW. I am married and have 2 kids and it is so hard. I take one class at a time usually online do my homework after everyone is in bed and I work full time in the education field as an assistant so it feels horrible to be passed up for great projects because I have no degree.I have a mortgage and preschool to pay for. People do judge you if you have no school or at least finish it. You are 19 what else are you going to do. Work in a dead end job. Find something you like so it motivates you. Your parents only want the best for you.

Answer 3

No matter what kind of job or career you get later on, going to college now will pay off big bucks in the future. Just stick with it now and in a few years you will understand what I'm saying.

Answer 4

you'll regret dropping out later on in life...