please help me i am pregnate!!! and only 18?

Question

hey everyone this morning i woke up and took apregnancy test so i could see if i was pregnate and guess what i am but yeah my bf is very surportive and we both cant suport the baby i live in brisbane and i was just wondering how do i go about getting an abortion and how much it is this kills me to do this but i have just started my photography diplomer and that is what is goingtobe my career i need urgent help please!!!!!!

for the fact that i was taking the pill and i never missed one pill is why i am scared i have been safe and if u understood my situation then u would see why i can just give it up for adoption and why i cant keep the baby it is very complicated even though me and my bf would love to! so if u want to ask me in deeper if you have a problem about me asking this then e-mail it to me ok dont get all your panties in a twist b4 you know what is really going on but thank you to thoes people who understand

sorry i was ment to say i can't give the baby up for adoption sorry bout that

Answer 1

Don't murder your baby :(. We all make choices in life and consequences come with them. As much as we may want to run from them, is murder really an option? Consider also that many of the consequences of abortion include (besides lifelong emotional scarring) infertility and even death.

I am not saying this to make you feel bad but rather to open your eyes to your options. If you kill the human life growing within you you will *never* be able to get it back. I think the choice you have before you now is do you love stuff more than you do your baby's life. If you murder your child you may yet have more stuff than you would if you didn't.

Stuff if replaceable. If you choose to let your baby live you might have some diffuculty acquiring stuff at first but since stuff comes and goes anyway you may end up having it sooner or later. My point is, give your baby a chance. I have included some links below which may help. I pray you make the right choice and choose life over convenient and legalized murder. :)

As a personal example, my cousin was 15 when he got a girl pregnant. They both had the option of abortion but when they talked it through with their families they realized that there was hope. There's always hope and help available if you look. Now my cousin's boy is going to be three years old and he is the light of his life. If he and his girlfriend had chosen to murder the human life then he would never be that happy. He has made many changes in his life and has done some growing up since then but he is a better person for it.

My mom had me when she was still in Pharmacy school. She finished school and is a successful pharmacist now. Having this baby will do nothing to alter your plans, please keep that in mind :).

Answer 2

You can look up the abortion question, but I urge you to consider all options before making that decision. It can't be reversed, you know. You can get help sometimes from family to seek the goals you have. There are ways. If abortion is your answer, then make sure you can live with that decision 5 years from now, 10 years from now, etc. Lots of people have gotten pregnant at an inconvenient time in their lives and made it just fine. It's a state of mind, really.

Answer 3

Ok so you are going to be selfish and kill a baby just because you messed up and screwed some guy without protection. Maybe you should have payed attention in school. You would have learned that sex actually causes pregnancy and how to spell the word PREGNANT!!!!

Answer 4

Mary Stopes organisation or family planning, don't have the kid it will ruin your life
its not killing babies its a few cells , remember yahoo answers is full of American religious nuts who dont believe in evolution
Mary Stopes is international woman's health organisation with a great reputation in Sydney it costs about $250 but they can help you with costs

remember it is NOT a baby, it is only few cells the procedure because the fetus isn't anything recognisable is only like having a curette
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Answer 5

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Answer 6

Now I know you've thought about this obviously but you do REALLY need to think-I mean this is someones life you're ending here, you can't just get rid of it without propperly thinking it through. I mean do you want the baby? If you want it-then keep it. I don't know your situation but if your boyfriend doesn't want it then (I don't really want to say this) don't listen to him-it's your baby and it's your choice! You say you can't support the child but maybe you could have some help from your family or close friends? I say again-REALLY think this through. . .

GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 7

I can imagine how hard this must be for you to ask and as well as how hard of a decision it must be for you to make. I am not sure of the cost? I think it gets more expensive the farther along you are and they won't do it after so long so it is something that if you really feel that strongly about look up the number in your yellow pages and call...I pray that you know what you are doing and have alot of people around you to give you alot of love...good luck....It is not outrageously expensive

Answer 8

Campbell Street Surgicentre
8 Campbell Street, Bowen Hills 4006
Phone [phone] 32528045
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Answer 9

being 18 and having a child is not the end of the world. not to be mean but if you are not ready to have a family then do not have sex. i am 19 and had my son when i was only 16 and it changed my life but my son did not ask to be brought into this world i made that decision when i had sex. so it is not your child's fault you had sex its yours so deal with it don't kill your child because of your mistakes go to planned parenthood and they can help you. there are alto of people in the world who can not have there own chldren and woudl love to adopt a child.

Answer 10

The only reason you would ask this is to get a rise out of people. If you really wanted an abortion you would just open a phone book or go talk to a doctor. Next time consider condoms or pills.