My 22 year old sister is friends with a girl at a daycare that they work at. She is sleeping with the girls live-in boyfriend. The couple have a child at the daycare. My sis hangs out at their house at least once a week where she has slept with him. Sis also goes out to lunch and spends time with the cheaters girlfriend and listens to her vent about her relationship. The cheater has the girlfriend living in his house with their daughter. The girlfriend is 25 and the cheater is 28+. He comes up to the daycare and brings them lunch and spends time with BOTH of them and has made sexual comments about them getting together for a threesome (supposedly in front of the girlfriend). Other workers have seen how much attention he gives my sis and they are gossiping about them to the boss. My sis told the boss nothing was going on weeks ago. My sis had a pregnancy scare recently. Both the guy and his girlfriend are licensed gun owners and sis is still sneaking off with him..Not smart. Advice?
2007-02-15 07:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Ginger_flybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...i guess we both had same problem about our sister like sleeping around...lol
but to be honest to matter what talk/convince that we are going to make for them...as long our sister are still LOVES/LIKES
to mess around no way jose that we could make them stop..
even this guy gf find out and the guy stop but still your sister is still like challeging relationship just like my sister.....its a waste of time for both of us...isnt?? now my sister she suffering for having a HPV, std's and etc..but still she doesnt learn for it!!1
2007-02-15 07:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you're sister she is playing with fire and she is going to get burned. She really doesn't want to get pregnant by that fool. She is just as wrong as the guy she is sleeping with. Her actions will affect that mans little girl to. Ask her what if her child's father was sleeping with one of her friends what would she do? How would she feel? She needs to do the right thing leave that guy alone and tell his girlfriend what they have been doing.
2007-02-15 07:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to show her, how rediculous that relationship is. That guy is not going to leave his bed for her, why should he? This friendship she has with her co-worker is a dangerous one. Anytime, a friend becomes an enemy, someone will be hurt by it. Usually it`s the innoccent one that does. When an innoccent person is hurt, nothing can stop that person from vengence. There`s an invisible line there ..where one shouldn`t cross and your sister has.. she is to blame just as much as that jerk is. Why don`t you confront him??
If you care about your sister.. you need to burn the other end of their rope...and confront him, with threats. Sometimes, one need to be the bad guy..and burst their bubble. It`s all up to you..there`s 2 innoccent ppl in this picture and one of them is a child. Hope this helps...GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-15 07:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by sheena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that she is no friend and a backstabber. She will get what she deserves in the end. It might be best if you just stay clear of any of this for safety reasons.... Yours!
2007-02-15 07:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to stop being a slu+ sleeping with a pig.
2007-02-15 07:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Everyone in this situation is screwed-up. All you can do though, is just tell her how you feel. She is an adult and has to make up her own mind and make her own decisions.
Good luck.
2007-02-15 10:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is so wrong, but she is grown and she knows right from wrong. Just let her know what goes around comes around.
2007-02-23 04:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your sister to stop acting like a tramp and she could get fired
2007-02-23 03:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the gf. then beat up the bf
2007-02-15 07:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her to go get some serious counseling...
2007-02-15 07:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by tx girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋