a man! for example i've always dated really handsome men, but they treated me like crap... cheating, breaking promises just basically arrogant self centered men... but ni thought they were the ideal guy cuz they dressed well and were cute! and not to mention they were lazy and always trying to get money from me that i didn't even have, so now i met this guy who i would not have considered the ideal guy for me and he happens to be one in so many ways.... he's kind, generous, thoughtful a great provider, hardworking (he owns 12 apartment buildings and he's always trying to make time to better himself! he's not overly concerned with dressing up, he's basically trying to build an empire... so ladies where your ideals right or wrong?
2007-02-15 05:56:54 · 9 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JMO - I noticed very handsome - attractive guys play a lot of games. But I've came to the realization that people play games in general.
Looks are important to some degree thats what usually attracts you to someone anyway. But what I may find attractive someone else may not think so and vice versa. Once I get pass the looks. I need the know the following - employed? single? kids? sense of humor? tempermant? trusthworthy? loyal? family oriented? spiritual?--- I think of it as an interview process.
My thing is that everything that looks good may not be good for you. I'm not looking for perfection because I'm not perfect. I'm laid back and I like to have fun but sometime I can be a wall flower especially if I'm some where amongst strangers. I dont want somebody that 's holding up the wall with me. LOL!!!
2007-02-15 06:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep getting dogged than stay with the handsome guys most of them are dogs becuz someone is always ready to take your place. If you want a good man get one everybody else ain't after he will treat you right and love you. Looks aren't everything and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what you think is beautiful the next person might not. You should not be so shallow.
2007-02-15 06:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a right or wrong, But men come in all shapes and sizes or for you super handsome or not, but in the old days, looks are only skin deep, if he is confident with himself and you are just as confident, looks are something you shouldn't Even worry about, if you found the man that you believe in your heart that will make you happy, don't even think about the mirrors.
2007-02-15 06:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How a guy looks is what u automatically notice at 1st, u can't help that. I try to get to know someone 1st though before I can say that I honestly like them. I have met so many guys that were good looking and then when u get to know them their looks kinda fade where they have such a bad personality. Then I've met guys that just looked like average joes and when I got 2 know them they became so good looking.
2007-02-15 06:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never liked super handsome (coddled) men in the first place. Ok, maybe in high school.....and they're nice to look at now and then...... but thats it! Congratulations to you. (Be careful with the overly-driven men, though. You'll find yourself with lots of pointless stuff, but feeling very lonely).
2007-02-15 06:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong, it's all about what you want. This guy your talking about sounds to busy to care about his looks right now anyway he is trying to obvisouly work very hard to make a good life , and I would definitely stick with this one!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 06:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like people based on their inner qualities and not appearance. When you're young and dating you might go for looks ONLY but when you are ready to get serious you need more.
2007-02-15 06:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not suppose to base your decisions on looks or money your supposed to base your decisions on how well you get them and how well you connect with them i mean if you base on looks that's like saying i would rather have a pink rock than an ordinary purse i mean come on a purse is a purse.
2007-02-15 06:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by your_baby678 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks is important to men and women. its not always about the looks..
2007-02-15 06:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋