2007-02-15 05:46:18 · 24 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a teddy bear.
2007-02-15 05:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling lonely has to be the worst. Start by asking yourself why you're lonely and be honest with yourself.Sometimes it helps to write it down. Then go through your answers and ask yourself what YOU can do to eliminate or make that factor better. The key is YOU. If you are feeling lonely because someone isn't with you then YOU go out and find someone that wants to be with you. Get where I'm headed here? Remember, you are the key to your happiness. Go out and live life, don't let life get you down. Another idea, read. There a many self help books out there that can give you the strenth you need to move your life along the way you want. If you can't afford books then go to a library or search the web. It's out there...Go get it. Good Luck
2007-02-15 13:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pray tell are you so lonely?
Join something....fast. Clubs, school, sports
Get a job or hobby or volunteer in a fun place were you can interact with others.
Loneliness is a state of mind, you can be lonely in a crowd.
Get to the source of the loneliness. Become friends with it. Talk to it. Say hay lonely guy, what are you trying to tell me. You'd be surprised at the answers you get.
2007-02-15 13:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to locate the source of your loneliness: recent breakup, you live in a remote area, you spend too much time in the office?
once you have this figured out you can begin to tackle it. Like you might want to join an interest group or class. There are tons of groups for hiking, boating, scuba diving, pottery, painting, whatever. See if your community college offers adult education. Or you might want to extend yourself in other ways, like having people over for dinner, or hosting a party. if you do either of these plan well so that everyone feels comfortable and the evening is a success. Whatever you do, good luck!
2007-02-15 13:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by le coq géant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this world is full of adventure and opportunities. You never need to feel down when you can find soo many interesting things. For example some of the things I do are I play soccer and Shuttle badminton. Another thing you can do is associate yourself to volunteer organizations like Red Cross. There are soo many fun stuff they allow you to do including driving elders to hospitals and providing food for them. They all are fun and you will have a great satisfaction of helping others and helping them get away from loneliness. And as a result get away from your own loneliness. Hope this helps.
2007-02-15 13:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by FC Arsenal Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like that when I was younger....how to deal? You have to bring yourself out of it. People are what they believe they are...if you are lonely...go out and meet people. If you are looking for a significant other...don't go looking for them. Through friendship you will find the right one. My suggestion? Find a hobby you enjoy and find someone to do it with.
Enjoy reading? Join a book club. Enjoy sports? Find a team to join or join a gym and make friends.
If you believe you are alone, and you mope around your room and never leave...and you are sad and depressed when you meet people....that's what you will be.
Get out and change it! You can do it!
2007-02-15 13:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I you should handle this is by going to a club or diffrent places where u think u can get a girlfriend if u don not want to be lonely.
2007-02-15 13:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww.. I am so sorry to hear that
if you don't make friends at work... I know you are going to read this and think
OH NO NOT ANOTHER ONE
but you can join a club or go to church or go to places that have lots of people around, hockey rinks, pools, beaches, night clubs.. maybe you are just shy..
my friend was in the same place as you and he joined harmony.com and he found a wonderful woman.. who was looking for a great guy and they are really happy together.. no wedding plans for them yet.. but maybe one day
2007-02-15 13:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you like to enjoy. Stop thinking that you are lonely and do something fun. call your friends, visit someone, play sports, etc. Go out with your girlfiend if you have one.
Sometimes i feel like that cause i don't have much friends, but i call them and we plan something to do. Most of the time i spend time with my family, but i make time for my friend. to visit or hang out with them. The bad thing is that i don't have a boyfriend to talk or have a full day with him.
2007-02-15 13:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Gloria (Madison) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself. When the right person comes along it'll work out. You have to put yourself out there though. You cant sit in the house and complain of loneliness. Also another thing that helps is to have great friends! good luck buddy!
2007-02-15 13:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lorena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I am supposed to marry didn't say Happy Valentines Day to me and he is being so mean lately. He didn't even bother getting me a flower...he worked late and didn't wake me up when he got home. I feel really lonely and I don't know how to deal with it. I am sad and it hurts my heart. I feel for you. Chin up tho.
2007-02-15 13:49:28 · answer #11 · answered by ~Jamaica~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋