Okay this guy I like told my friends he likes me but he doesn't like somethings he has heard about me....I don't know what he has heard but the thing is everyone in my neighborhood knows that he has gone all the way with a few ppl thing is I have only gone to like 3rd base and was wondering do I tell him this? AND 2nd question whats a way to make him want me even more? I mean I have worn so many shirts that show cleavage and he seemed to glance every now and then but thats it what do I do?
2007-02-15 05:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same problem here!!!!!!!
be honest and if he dosent accept it move on guys are duche bags anyways
2007-02-15 05:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talking about your relationships with other guys will distract this guy's attention away from you. And that's not good for romance.
But you can show this guy that other men mean nothing to you by giving this guy your best looks and smiles while ignoring all other men who may also like you.
People believe non-verbal behavior a lot more than words. Words often lie, but behavior usually tells the truth.
I don't think you need to make this guy want you even more. He already wants you bad enough. The reason why he only glances at your cleavage and doesn't do anything more is because he is not sure what your response would be should he try to make friends with you.
Make small talk with him about the weather or anything else you like. And once he feels comfortable talking with you, then perhaps it won't be so hard for him to make a pass at you.
His problem is not that he doesn't like you enough but he is scared that you will bite his head off if he makes a pass at you. Ease his fears, and he will probably try to make friends with you.
2007-02-15 13:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to this guy? Most of what people "hear' about other people is just flat out wrong. Including what you may have heard about him or what he has heard about you. What things could he have heard about you that he wouldn't have liked? And are they true or not?
If he is not shy with girls, then there are 2 possibilities.
He REALLY likes you a lot and is not sure how you feel.
In that case, your showing cleavage may be sending him the wrong message - that you're not the type of girl that he would want for a girlfriend.
OR, he doesn't like you at all and you are wasting your time.
Either way, skip the low cut shirts and go talk to him.
Say HI.
2007-02-15 13:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. When we started I was a virgin (all I had done was make out sessions) and he was definitely not (he had had threesomes, been with 6 or 7 girls, and was known for it). He waited until I was ready (about 5 months) and now we are so in love. If he is the right guy he will wait and not worry about what you have and have not done.
2007-02-15 13:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on a few different things..
first, do want a real relationship or just a fling with him - cause if you want a real relationship, being a sex object isn't going to help you succeed.
he doesn't need to know what you've done, and you should ask what he has heard.
you can make him want you more by talking to him and having the same common interests.. but please don't compromise yourself for some dude that may just fu*k you and leave you.
respect yourself.. and make him want to be with you, you are throwing yourself at him. let him know that you are more then a pair of t!ts and ***.. you girls today have to bring back some class to your generation.
good luck!
2007-02-15 13:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by a dork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is going to judge you based on things he has heard others say about you then you don't want to be with him in the first place. If he really likes you then he would care enough to get to know you and figure out who you really are. Stop trying so hard to get his attention, he isn't worth it.
2007-02-15 13:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off dont let him know u only been to 3rd base unless u hook up and are together for a long time.. because if things go wrong he will BRAG. secondly to get his attention more.. spend time alone with him and wear sexy clothes...i know how tempting it is lol.. talk to him alot and become close thats how the relationship will start. n whenever u start becoming close let him now that there are haters that talked sh*t about u. and he will understand and believe you. hot pink/black is sexy wear those colors. good luck.
2007-02-15 13:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Marino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..ppl talk. i mean that happens but you just cant belive everything u hear and you should talk directly to the person who u hear things about. to get a guy to like u more jus show him ur good qualities and play hard to get. thats how u rly no a guy wants u.and if u want to tell him u havent got that far yet like he has thats up to you..he might like that he could be the first guy..idk..- hoops
2007-02-15 13:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what gender you are we see a** and boobs all over the place. All that makes you do is wanna f*ck. And you don't need to tell him you're a virgin until you know you wanna give it to him. Be yourself and the one for you will come when it's time. Chill out and enjoy yourself. Stop trying to impress him so hard. Its sickening.
2007-02-15 13:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love to be flattered and feel smart. Since he has some more experience than you, get him alone, say you heard he knows a thing or two that he could teach you... and take it fro there
2007-02-15 13:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get naked.
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2007-02-15 13:22:00 · answer #11 · answered by LiL EarlE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋