Why won't a stranger not support me in the suicide of myself but my mom will? Is it WRONG to want to be dead? Why do people act like they care when you can tell they really don't? Is there something wrong with ME? Someone please help me.
2007-02-15 05:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is a symptom of serious depression to want to be dead for extended periods. It is also wrong to take your own life; just as wrong as taking the life of another. I can't believe your assertion that your mother wants to help you end your life. If that is true it is very wrong for your mother to state or even feel this as a Mother's love is normally more intense for a child than even for herself. Whereas Christ's self sacrifice was for his self aggrandizment a mother's sacrifice for her child is what sustains the human race and is often unrewarded by those who are recipients of it
I think you are suffering an extreme case of self pity. If your mother seriously agrees with your suicide wishes that in itself would be the reason for your depression and maybe anger at her. That agreement by your mother is tatamount to child murder and is a very serious accusation. I can't believe she seriously said this. Has she "grounded you" in some way and this suicide threat is really your way of lashing out at her? Is your mothers aquiessence just a ploy because she knows this and is not going to succumb to such a threat?
There is definitely something wrong with you! It is either a serious depression or a childish act to gain your mother's sympathy.It would help to research depression and find out if you really are suffering from clinical depression or are just mad/sad because you have been disciplined. Type "depression(mood)" and "clinical depression" into "Yahoo! search" and study the symptoms in some of the links that come up Wikipedia is a good link. If the symptoms fit or you really are going to attempt suicide call the local "suicide prevention hot line" , NOW! Otherwise grow up and obey your mother's ground rules not her wish to help you end it all. Suicide is a permanet solution to a temporary problem. There is no second chance..
Like the old saying goes, "I really feel for you but I can't reach you." Good luck, Love and God bless!
Later:
I have read some of your earlier questions and now am trying to "reach you." I think there is much need for forgiveness all around. If you are pregnant you need the support of the guy who got you there as well as your parents. I hope the boy friend does his duty and supports you; he is as much responsible as you. I also hope you do not decide on an abortion.
I had a great Aunt and Uncle who married at 14 yrs each because they had to, had two children and celebrated their 75th wedding anniversary. I also had a friend, a boy, who got a girl pregnant in high school, married her, finished high school and are still married, proud parents of 3 children and are great grandparents. It is not unheard of to marry so young and there are at least 3 lives at stake.
You two have a very serious problem and please for these three lives sake do not, you two who blundered, make the mistake of compounding the error by taking another's life! Love and best wishes. D.P.M.
2007-02-15 07:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your mother has mental health issues of her own. If you are really that depressed, I would advise you to call a suicide hot-line or an adult you trust. suicide is never an answer. Teenage years are difficult and suck. It really does get better, one day you will look back on this period of your life and not only be so happy it is over, but be a completely different person. Trust me, I was not happy or "cool" in high school, but I am now, and most of the pretty, popular girls are fat miserable divorcees. Hang in there and if there is something about your life you don't like, change it. Get fit and healthy. Working out not only makes you look better, but feel better too. Just don't give up, that is the wrong thing to do.
2007-02-15 13:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by smp1969 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK Honey! My best friend and I was reading your comment and we think you need to read The Kings James Version of the Holy Bible if your religious. Not to be funny or anything but just being truthful. Yes something is terribly wrong with you. And something is even more wrong with your mom b/c she supports you on killing yourself. You need to talk to a counselor or someone. And people do care if you want to kill yourself or not. I don't know you but I care that you feel that killing yourself is the only way out. Do ever think about where you may end up if you take that step? TROUBLES DON'T LAST ALWAYS HONEY BABY, and NOTHING can be but so horrible that you would want to take that step. Don't do it! Its not worth it.
2007-02-15 13:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by ladyP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are people who really care about you, even strangers. It sounds like you may be down and depressed. If so your thought process is off. Many, many people feel that way. You need to seek help from a doctor or couselor to guide you in the right direction. Your Mother is wrong! Take a huge step, it may feel impossible but seek someone to help you...a doctor, a minister, a couselor. There are people who truly care. They can help and listen. Pray for help and take the first step. Best wishes
2007-02-15 15:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Deutsche359 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed. People get depressed but don't need to destroy their life. There are medications to help, and counseling.
Suicide is permanently ending life. Life is too precious to end. Look at all those people with various cancers fighting to live.
If you are truly feeling like suicide, talk to your favorite teacher, or neighbor, or call a suicide hot line. You can call a hospital and they can give you the local number.
2007-02-15 13:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
life is hard but suicide is a permanant solution to a temperary problem,i dont understand your mother she should be helping you not trying to hurt you let me tell you a little about myself and maybe that will help in some way i am paralyzed on the left side of my body and i take botox 800ccs every 3 mths to walk i have at one time thought about what you are saying and realized just like yourself i have something to offer in this world you are a good person in need of a friend God has us here for a reason maybe you or i dont know what it is but we are helping someone somewhere that we do not even realize// our existance here is not just to be miserable but to live life to its fullest// try God He is the best friend a person can have and is always there/when you need someone call on Him talk to Him just like He is sitting beside you because He is i realized that suicide is actually a cowards way out and realized that my life is actually not my own you have to much to offer people to deprive them of what you have i know that there is strength in you that you havent even tapped into,you can do all things through Christ that strengthens you .......good luck and God Bless
2007-02-15 13:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right or wrong your heart knows,listen to your heart.
There is nothing wrong with you,it is a teen age problem.
Few have this unfortunate situations and will get over it.
Just feel yourself in to good moods,join your good friend and talk it over.
Suicide is not for brave hearts.
2007-02-15 13:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by SKG R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll support you in your decision. I'm not telling you to go kill yourself, but if you really want to committ suicide, I can't stop you. The only one that can, is YOU. Be smart, make the right descision.
2007-02-15 14:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes something is wrong, with you and your mother
you both need to get some help, and see a doctor
why don't you try some anti depressants or talk to a support group or something!
2007-02-15 13:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you pregnant? Hormone changes cause up and downs. Therapy is needed for you.
2007-02-15 13:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Allison O 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋