i have been in a relationship for less than 20 days and we are already moving in together. is it too soon?
2007-02-15 05:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by cutiepiesm14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you feel that it is too soon for you. I moved in with my bf after 3 weeks and 6 months later, i wouldnt change it for the world. Good Luck!
2007-02-15 05:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by FanofJrSrand29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already moving in together the question is probably moot.
However, what are the reasons you are doing this. Is it because you are totally infatuated with one another? Do you both happen to need a place to live right now? Do you need another person in order to afford a decent place to live?
If your reason is simply that you two are "intoxicated" with one another it is probably too soon. At this point your question should probably be; If things go sour do I have what it takes to get out of the situation? If you don't have a way out, you may be vulnerable to abuse. That could range from lack of appreciation, to living with unpleasant behavior to being a victim of meanness or even violence down the road.
If you are already committed to the move, then just be prepared to move again if it is not working out. It is not a major problem as long as you remain prepared to act again if need be.
2007-02-15 05:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by woodmark52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way way way too soon. You don't even really know him yet. You're still having a hormone rush. Wait until the rush is over and see if you even like the guy. You may find he has a habit or two you can't live with.
2007-02-15 05:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too soon! A few months of dating would be the earliest I'd consider, and that would be only if we'd spent a lot of time together during those months and had really taken big strides in getting to know one another...
Make sure you have a backup plan if this doesn't workout...
2007-02-15 05:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have known each other before you got into a relationship...If it have only know each other 20 days then i would say yes it is too soon.
2007-02-15 05:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think that is way soon! Maybe you should wait until you have been together for a year.
2007-02-15 05:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anastasia♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way, Way TO SOON> You should really get to know who this person is. How he treats his family, likes, dislikes. Work habits. Lifes to short to jump first then look later! Slow down, if it's ment to happen, it will.
2007-02-15 05:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by cora m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon. You don't know the person that well.
2007-02-15 05:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by lalaland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's wayyyyyyyyyyy too soon. Do you really know this person? Be very careful. Don't rush things.
2007-02-15 05:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly!! Dont move in yet!! The start is the best part of a relationship, the excitement, butterflies, dating. Take things slow. Dont rush and enjoy eachother. Please!! I wish you all the best.
2007-02-15 05:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by katyllou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋