theres this very nice guy who told me that he liked me. and i thought maybe it was just a little crush. so a few day before valentines day i told him that i will get him his favorite cereal and he could get me mine. so on valentines day i was expecting cereal but instead of just that he made me this card that i know he put alot of effort into. on the cover it said to the prettiest, coolest, and most beautiful girl i know...... and he also brought me a rose. and i was in shock. because i didnt know that he liked me that much. i feel really bad cause i dont feel the same way but how many guys would something like that for me. i love his personality but im just not attracted to him.... what do i do?
2007-02-15 05:16:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make it clear to him in words or actions that you only want to be his friend
2007-02-15 05:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him for starters. If you aren't attracted to him physically, that is something that can be overcome if he treats you right. Some of the prettiest girls are with some of the ugliest guys because they treat them right. You like him somewhat or you wouldn't have posted this question. Start dating him and see how it goes. STAY AWAY FROM THE L-WORD!!! If he says it too soon, then he might be mentally unbalanced. You won't know any of this unless you go on a few dates with him. People get too caught up on physical appearences that they miss out on meeting some really great people. It's not like he asked you to marry him!!!!!
2007-02-15 13:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by mike09271974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date and give him a chance. Guy's with good personalities can become hot! if after your date you still feel the same tell him he is really nice but you just want to be friends.
Looks are not everything. Make sure you wont regret it if you decide not to give him a chance.
2007-02-15 13:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that looks aren't everything BUT attraction is. Attraction includes the mind, body, and soul. If you are not attracted to him, then don't waste your time or his.
2007-02-15 13:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋