How do I not lose hope in finding love? I'm just so sad cause I really want to find my soul mate, love, and someone to share my life with.
2007-02-15 05:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love has been in my life before and I hope it will be again...I don't go in search of it, but live my life as well as I can, make every day the best it can be, and am thankful for what I have (versus unhappy over what I don't).
We choose to be happy or not...don't base your happiness on a romantic partner...when you are happy with your life and who you are, is when you'll be in the best position to be a good partner to someone else...
2007-02-15 05:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose Hope In Love
2016-12-13 04:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by bise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat with you.I have been in 2 relationships and both were horrible.I feel like im a good girl and have alot to offer but why doesnt any one see that in me????My friends too said to not look for it that it will come and that was 2 years ago lol.I do believe that there are soul mates and theres someone out there for everyone but who knows when they will find that person all i can say is that it will happen in due time.Good luck!
2007-02-15 05:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by brandy c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess i sort of lost hope a few years ago!
I just stopped looking or carring and started to love my own company and a year after that i wanted to be alone i started to enjoy my company and realized i can live with out some one else!
then out of the clear blue sky i found him!
it's been over a year now and we are still madly in love with each other!
so don't look and be happy with your own company i mean if your not why should anyone else want your company right!
:)
Best of luck
Coping.org great site for live issues!
2007-02-15 05:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right there with you girl. I've been told to stop looking and it will find you...easier said than done. I just try to stay busy, have some great friends that I hang out with and focus on myself. I'm not saying that works but does keep me busy enough somedays to not think about being alone and ever finding anyone.
2007-02-15 05:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by T C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Crazy Heart,
I want to send you a blessing to find love. I hope for you that you will begin to see the signs of love coming toward you and you will have so much confidence in this, that you will not focus on it at all, and remember timing is everything.....Love will come. Sometimes we measure in months and years, but love doesn't work on this schedule.
Good Luck & Blessing
2007-02-15 05:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never lose hope in something you believe in if you do u will never find it and this is coming from a boy. I believe that there is someone for everyone bye
2007-02-15 05:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds silly but there is no way to find love untill you love yourself. Let me explain. If you become the person you want to be, you will attract the right people to you, the people that will know who you are and who will be the perfect fit for you.
2007-02-15 05:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by summer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yope am in the same boat as ou girl.But i didnt lose hope yet, i am in a relationship as i speak but idk if he really loveme becuase he said he don and he want me to be his wife and all dat but i just cant fall for it am to scared. Well you can start by looking for someone who got all the elements in a person or aleast some and then play around with him a little bit and see whereit goes. oh just start out as i just want to be friends and den he will come out and let u kno if u want to be more than friends. idk gurl jus tlet him know wut your lookin for and what you need & want. works for me
2007-02-15 05:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tashana W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre young ....dont lose hope.
if youre old and have seen all the games and dont want another gray hair ....take up knitting.
2007-02-15 05:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋