what's the best way to go about finding a person(girl) to have a threesome with?

Question

we want to get another girl to have some fun with. we don't currently know anyone willing and don't want to call an escort either. Suggestions??

Answer 1

go to a club or party and find someone.

Answer 2

Well if you have never done this before , first make sure your relationship can handle all that comes with it. Many people think it will be great fun and an open experience but then comes the jealousy and anger later on when the deed is done. Now that said, a safe and good way to get started is to look up some swingers conventions in your area. This sounds really cheesy i konw but they are fairly safe and all the people there have the same intentions as you. Most of them will let you warm up with a really awesome buffet dinner and then a dance type music fest later on. Each couple pays for a room and dinner , the cost can be $100.00 or more but the environment is right. My husband and i were gonna do this last year but i got pregnant so we never got too. Check into it and like i said keep your communication open for all possibilities. I like the swinger route because i didnt have to feel like this was a woman that my husband would contact later for an affair or such and we felt fairly safe and clean about the other couples. Good luck and be safe in your choices.

Answer 3

You got two options.

1) a complete stranger.
2) someone you can realy trust.

Someone usually gets jealous, thats why you need to either really trust the person or be sure you won't see them again.
Use a safety word as well, like butterfly, so if its getting a bit weird you can slow things down without it getting too uncomfortable an stopping.
It really has been better in my experience to be with a friend that you both trust, end of the day if your secure with each other then it won't matter, but don't underestimate how different people feel when their in that situation, an make sure the person you choose understands where they stand to.

You just gotta go looking, clubs can be good but don't pick someone up where you know your going to be a lot of the time it can have consequences.

Answer 4

All of the FMF threesomes we have had have just happened. We met one woman at a nightclub. We met another at a party. We're active swingers, so you'd think we'd meet many, but there just are not that many women actively looking for couples to have threesomes with. There are a bunch that have that fantasy, but they don't actively pursue it. It's kind of like "if it happens great, if it doesn't oh well."

Try joining a swingers dating site though, like Swing Lifestyle http://www.swinglifestyle.com , Swappernet http://www.swappernet.com , or Swingular http://www.swingular.com . You will find some single women looking for couples there, but not many. In the lifestyle we call them "unicorns" because they are about as common as one.

Good luck.

Answer 5

My girlfriend and I want to do the same thing.But we don't want to call an escort or pay a hooker.I think the only way you can find an other girl is going to a bar or ask an friend.If I find out how we did I will get back to you.Or e-mail me at [e-mail].

Answer 6

unless you are willing to place a personal ad asking for a second partner in one of those paid sites, your chances are slim.

Answer 7

Eeeeewww!

Answer 8

If you get an answer to this, share it with me. Hell, I'd be happy with a twosome right now. These onesomes are getting tiresome.

Answer 9

Swinger magazines at the local porn shop, Internet sex sites.

Answer 10

Go to some nightclubs.