You're at odds with somebody, and you try to apologize and make up for what had happened. But this person won't just talk to you, and continues to ignore you. What do you do??
Thank you!!
2007-02-15 04:39:29 · 25 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think you should let this person understand how you feel about it, and more importantly give this person some more time to cool down (like few days or weeks), then if this person likes or respects you, s/he will get back with you.
Personal experience - this always works with 99% success =)
good luck
2007-02-15 04:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, give the person some time to cool off. Don't ignore them but give them some space. Whatever you do, don't ignore them in return, it will just cause a vicious cycle. Don't actively pursure the person continually ttrying to apologise, but if you do encounter them be friendly and polite.
After giving them some time, approach them about the issue. Dont go on the defensive, but apologise. Hopefully, the person will have the chance to cool down and will then accept your apology. If you've give them time, apologised and they still ignore you then I would re-evaluate the relationship you have. It depends on what you did/argued about. If it was something major, the person might be justified in being continually angry with you. If it was something minor, and you've made the effort, it may be time to consider whether or not this person is really worth the effort
2007-02-15 04:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by LMS 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Put your mind at peace! You have done the right thing by apologizing. If your apology falls on deaf ears, then the problem is no longer yours. People who can't forgive are often times the ones who never find peace. Move on to these around you who are forgiving and understand that we all make mistakes. This is the other person's loss....not yours.
2007-02-23 02:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being at odds with them. Apologize and leave it, and go on with your life. They maybe not be ready to deal with this situation. When they are they will let you know, but dont sit and wait for that to happen.
2007-02-15 10:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Val 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stay away for a while or lay low, then sooner than you think, when everything is over the person will talk to you again. You might have hurt the person real good.
2007-02-15 05:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are speaking about. Give her/him the time to allow their thought process clear about the situation. Don't pressure the person( I know it is hard) but allow them t be bad or upset and let them speak to you. Depending on how bad the situation was you might have to reel her/him in with Small small talk. Good luck, prayfully they will come around soon.
2007-02-19 05:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My best friend did that to me for a year. I was devastated and confused at first, but then i hung out with my other friends more and more, until she learned that she needed other friends too. She realized that the silent reatment and cold shoulder wern't working, so then she gave up. now, we've been best friends for 7 years!
2007-02-15 04:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about writing a letter, or just leaving a note? Maybe you can give that a try and see what happens.
2007-02-15 04:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cactus flower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have tried to speak to this person, and were ignored. I would let it go. Maybe one day soon, they will get over the problem.
2007-02-15 04:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Consider this your opportunity to find some mature friends. Live your own life. You said your piece and they can either accept it or not. Why do you care?
2007-02-22 16:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by cuzntommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋