do we want to have any sex with one that we have true love.
2007-02-15 04:35:44 · 19 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love , doesnt care about sex .... Its a feeling of hearts & not feeling of body
2007-02-15 04:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by muthu.07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually we define love in a different way. Say you love some body. It does not mean that the person should be your opposite sex. Think of your friends. You really love them. But when it comes to love an opposite sex person. Then our thinking is influenced by our hormonal secretion. Most of us can not think of loving an opposite sex person without thinking about sex. It always, almost, gets to the point of sex. But its not abnormal. When both of the persons think of the same. They can have sex. There is nothing wrong in their love. If two people want to have sex, it doesn't imply any weakness in their love. It still qualifies for a true love.
But love does not REQUIRE sex. Love have a wider meaning.
Love depends on persons. Two persons may love each other so much that one can not live a moment without the other. Another two people can love each other so that they can live on the opposite side of the globe and still have their soul loving each other. May be for common people the first kind is more common.
Lastly, if you love a woman and want to have sex with her you are confused that is my love true?! Then try to ask yourself that if some thing happens to the women, so that every body neglects her, every body scolds her, will you stand beside her? Do you have enough belief in her? If yes, you can proudly tell that you want to love her with your whole heart. Best of luck!
2007-02-15 14:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by arnab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly in love sex shouldn't be the first thing that comes to mind. Just the desire to be with that person should be enough. Everything about that person should be bliss, not just sex. Now of course after time having sex is important and wonderful in growing a loving relationship! Especially if you are both in love. But if you or your partner are wanting sex right away chances are it's only lust or just the love of having sex.
2007-02-15 12:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
I don't know about you but I believe you are suppose to want sex from the one that you love. I am not perfect and have not always stayed strong and true but that is my weakness.
This is probably why so many bad things happen when you have sex just to be having it, like; sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, suicide from broken heartedness concerning not knowing how to let go of a person, friends betraying friends and family betraying family, kids growing up not knowing who their absent parent is and all kinds of disfunctional situations that arise from not loving the person you are having sex with. I mean sure, it could happen if you did everything right but the beauty of doing it right is that your conscience is clear and guilt cannot make you feel regretful.
If you are going to be just having sex remember it is just that and protect yourself and don't play with the other persons feelings. Just be upfront and let them know what is going on or leave them alone. I am sure there will be a willing participant somewhere.
2007-02-15 12:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times i've though i absolutely loved someone and wanted to spend the rest of my life with them, turned out to be nothing but pure sex drive and atraction. Once the sex occured, i lost interest (lovewise). Other times (few) this didn't happen.
So sex is really the only way to know if you're really in love or just want to Sc%&$ her.
I also believe taht sex is a fundamental part of love in any case
2007-02-15 12:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would true love be a deterrent to sex? OK, I truly love my family and don't want to have sex with them but don't most husbands and wives truly love each other? Don't they normally have sex? Why would you only want to have sex with people you don't love?
2007-02-15 12:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, why wouldn't you want to give them what they need?
Sex is a need, yes. And it's best served with a whole lot of love.
2007-02-15 12:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because "love" is a chemical reaction in the brain. And sex is a biological response. They can happen simultaneously or exclusively.
2007-02-15 12:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there better be sex in true love otherwise you are in deep trouble, when you are in love you will want to make love all the time LOL
2007-02-15 12:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. You see when two people love each other and have sex they are exploring each other and their bodies are getting to know one another and they are showing their feelings in a different way.
2007-02-15 12:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋