How can I stop my 3 year old from acting obnoxious?

Question

My 3 year old daughter is a sweet little girl on her own, but when there are other children are around she becomes annoying, whiny, and obnoxious. She screams and throws fits for no reason and she is very disrespectful towards me and everyone around her. It's like she doesn't know how to behave socially. I think I am a good parent and I try my best to show her right from wrong, but lately I feel lost, I don't know what to do. Any suggestions would help. I'm tired of feeling angry all the time, how can I help her, so we can live in peace together. Thanks

Answer 1

God bless every mom out there! I would suggest spending quality time with her every day and always recognising the good she does and pointing it out to her. Either with a treat (only when she's really good) or by saying "Good job!" you know, just make her feel like she's not always getting yelled at or punished... not saying you do that. And when she does act out come down to her level (sqwat down there) and talk to her calmly, tell her that her behavior is not acceptable and there will be consequences, and then stick to the punishment. Good luck and I know how you feel! Being a mommy is the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most rewarding one! She'll thank you later if you and consistent and firm, but gentle and loving at the same time! I wish you luck!

Answer 2

Your daughter could have social issues.My son acted the same way.after years of just trying to cope I took him in for therapy at about age 7.While in session we discovered he has Asperger Syndrome.He did very well in one on one situations but had no concept of how to participate in any form of group activity and no social skills at all.Now I'm not saying your child has this condition but you might look into it and see if there are any signs other than acting out that she might have this condition.I didn't know until we started gathering info that it affects 1 in every 5 children.Hope this helps

Answer 3

The day vacation is completely a thanks to pass. sit her down someplace like in the front room or the kitchen and then stroll faraway from her, yet be particular you're someplace the position you may discover her and she or he will be in a position to't see you. then you may save a watch on her and be particular she continues to be placed. enable her cry her little eyes out, and once she is finished, then you pass as a lot as her with a comfortable yet stern voice and tell her what she did incorrect and inspire her to assert sorry. you in elementary words should be the mother, be the rule of thumb maker and be someone she will be in a position to learn a thanks to appreciate, inspite of if she is feeling disenchanted. and positively, once each and every thing has been taken care of out, a lot of affection is the proper treatment! sturdy success!

Answer 4

Some parents probably wont do this but if you give her a tiny smack on the hand or leg or butt she probably wont do it again. If she disrespects you that way then that is what she needs.