I came home unexpected and when I went in the house I heard some noise upstairs. I didn't think anyone was home because there were no cars in the driveway. Anyway, I went into the bedroom and I saw my dad and another guy on the block kind of wrestling without clothes. When he saw me he tried to jump up, but couldn't. I ran out of the room. A few minutes later he came downstairs and said he was doing chyropracting on one of his parishoners (our neighbor Ken). Should I tell my mom?
2007-02-15 04:13:32 · 19 answers · asked by jc20155 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Our neighbor Ken is a divorced guy who has a boy that goes to my school. Ken has a lot of parties with other men. His son always wants me to come over and spend the night. I don't think my dad is gay. I don't think they would let him be the pastor of the church.
2007-02-15 04:36:45 · update #1
Whatever you do, Think about your father feelings too. This society always try to make individuals act like theyre all the same, but the truth is that we are not. What some people see as something "offensive", other people might see as love. Think about it. And finally, in this matter, as none of the people that answered know your father or your mother, the story between them, or yourself, including me, I´d try talking to a friend, who would put your happyness first, instead of social jugdement. Take care, and be as happy as possible.
2007-02-15 04:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lupo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to discuss this with your mom. Keep in mind that your Mom and Dad will have some quite possibly heated discussions about this, and the family, as such may not completely survive.
Chiropractic is not practiced in the nude, but you already know that. It's possible that your dad's gay, or bisexual. You have a right to understand what you saw, and I would think that your Dad owes you an explanation that is based in truth.
In any event, it seems your dad has been somewhat "outed", due to his actions. I'll pray for your family, and hope that things work out for the best for all of you.
2007-02-15 04:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her. She needs to know. be ready though when things go down cuz they will but IT IS NOT YOUR FAULTyou did nothing wrong, you should not have witnessed that. it would have been bad enough if it were your parents you walked in on but this is bad.... i dont think i would be staying at my friends house, he could come to mine but i dont think i would be staying over there... that is definitally not right at all. Hope everything goes well.
2007-02-15 06:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom about this. Just remember that there will be some arguments in the home after that. Be prepared. You aren't doing anything wrong by telling. It is the right thing to do.
2007-02-15 04:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really hope this is a serious question and that you're fairly young. I wouldn't by the chiropractic thing. Your dad may have been playing hide the sausage. tell your mom and be sure to let me know how that whole conversation goes.
2007-02-15 04:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Deeder Magoo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes you should tell your mom she needs to know that your dad is gay
2007-02-15 04:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. She was probably "wrestling" with the dude's wife over at his house.
2007-02-15 04:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Timothy S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should definatley tell your mom....but be prepared because it will probably cause alot of problems....reguardless your mom has the right to know.
2007-02-15 04:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by mom2ace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! YES, You need to tell your mom and any other adult that could help!
2007-02-15 04:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mum, it will upset her yes and must of been a shock for you to see, but guys dont "wreslt" naked for no reason i am sorry u had 2 witness it good luck and stay positive
2007-02-15 04:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by AMANDA G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋