Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last month when she sent me a mail. It was abt her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me
2007-02-15 03:46:08 · 15 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that because she is on the other side of the world that maybe you should move on and look elsewhere. There is no reason not to reply, but since you didn't have a dating relationship when she left, there is no reason to try and start one by email. That is just silly.
2007-02-15 03:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steve H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about this, shes overseas concentrating on school etc and so forth, which requires alot of concentration and little time to do it all in. getting your emails are probly a nice reminder of home. dont stop. but also remember that sometimes ppl can get lost in the confusion and not realize that its been days or weeks since they got your email, and havent answered it yet. Dont bring up the outing and the fact that she doesnt talk to you cause you dont know that whole story, just email and deal with the fact that shes not required by law to get back to you ASAP, shes doing the best she can
2007-02-15 11:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by SLIM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you as a friend and nothing more. Because if it was serious true love she'd be hurting like you are and she'd actually take the time to call, email, and write to you. That or she does love you but she's just so busy she forgets some times but I don't think that's it. Maybe she's found another guy to date. So you should find another girl too. Seriously it sounds suspiciously like it's over as far as the dating thing goes.
2007-02-15 11:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say keep on trying to contact her or if you can't, contact her family to see if there's anyway that they can help you get ahold of her, but you would think that if she had feelings she would let you know and keep in touch with you, but there's things that just happen, and maybe since you said she went to study, maybe she's trying to concentrate on her studies. Just try to get in touch of her and make sure that if you do, you get an answer of what she wants to do or if you are seriously going to continue to keep in touch.......:: ))
2007-02-15 11:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she got spooked becuase she wasen't having her space. I hate not giving you a positive answer but girls have this thing where they need their space. Now don't worry girls have these gestures where a guy will sense that it's ok to be with her.
This is a tip for you just in case if this girl is not for you. Even if she is not for you, please don't be upset about it. Life is about learning and making mistakes. We all go through it.
I wish you happiness in your life.
Take care
2007-02-15 11:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her when you get in touch everything thats on you mind .Nothing will be clear to you until you do.im so sorry that your hurting but theirs only you can do this for yourself.if you dont hear what you want to hear ,you will hurt some more, but thats life ,we all go through it at some point . we just have to move on GOOD LUCK........
2007-02-15 12:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by patsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is ask, the worst thing she can say is NO, and thus far it has been a NO in your mind anyways (because of how she blew you off) So just ask her, be upfront, but be tactfull and sincere. You go Boy!
2007-02-15 11:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only ask mate, she may have found someone else, ask that to. then you know you can move on, no point chasing after a lost course.
2007-02-15 11:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by funknomega 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but she is obviously not interested in taking your relationship any farther..that is painfully obvious...try to find a girl who appreciates you...good luck
2007-02-15 11:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by HENRY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you as a boyfriend but she wants to stay friends.
2007-02-15 11:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋