My wife and I enjoy sexual roleplay in the bedroom, as it intensifies arrousal tremendously.
Here is what I am concerned about.....My fantasy involves my with black men. I catch her in the act with a black man. We roleplay this out and I get turned on. Now I see my wife is starting to enjoy my fantasy. I am concerned that one day when she gets flirted with by a handsome black man that she will think it's ok because of my fantasy. Should I be concerned?
2007-02-15 03:26:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She used to fantasize about me with her friend. Now, all she wants to fantasize about is her with a black lover. I hope I did not create a monster...LOL
2007-02-15 04:17:04 · update #1
well first of all this must be popular its the same at our home BUT it will stay only talk and fun if thats where you two are in you relatiionship my husband and i have been together 16 years and even if it came about out of the bedroom it may become more if the other knows about it.cause after it really happens you go home and it gets very HOT HOT HOT.besides if you two trust each other nothing bad will happen and hell you never know maybe the guy she meets may come home for you to "catch them "so to speak.all i know is tried and true "keep the spice in your life".if you guys are honest and open about your feelings and talk about your concerns you never know what fun door you could open.
2007-02-15 03:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from someone that has tried it also i have found out itthere is a time and place 4 it.it was hard 4 my husband 2 leave it in the bedroom only.it will hurt the realationship in the long run, unless yall both have no green eyed monster in your system.if yall have the trust then yes try it but if not dont couuce u will always think they r doing it .
2007-02-15 03:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by denise g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. As long as you wife is aware of that fantasize away.
2007-02-15 03:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know your wife best, can she separate the two, fantasy and reality.
Most women can. I role-play with my husband, I have been a hooker but believe me, I would never take that beyond our bedroom.
2007-02-15 04:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something you have to trust her with or talk to her about it. Does she ever fantasy that u are with another girl? If she does maybe she has the same fear.
2007-02-15 03:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do have sexual fantasies about their wives and girlfriends.
2016-05-24 03:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't trust your wife. Woman are smart enought to seperate fantasy from real life.
2007-02-15 03:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its just fantasy, keep thinking it
2007-02-15 03:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋