Last night my Valentines plans went down hill. My boyfriend bought me a box of chocolate and beautiful roses. I thought that was pretty romantic and nice of him. But latter that night I was feeling like if I was coming down with something for some reason a felt like I was getting sick. My plans were to put on a lingerie and have a romantic night with him. So any ways we couldn't do that because my daughter didn't want to go to sleep I put her in bed at 7:30 p.m and it was 9:45 p.m and she was still awake. To make the story short I was felling tired and sick by 10 pm and we ended up doing nothing. This morning he woke up with an attitude and he went thru my stuff and found the lingere that I was going to were last night. He throw it to my face and told me it was best you did were it I don't like. You are always F***** things up. So I told him I' ll save it for some one who will like it. Do you think I should off never said that. And what should I do if he is always bringing me down.
2007-02-15 03:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend was being very VERY selfish. You were sick (I feel your pain on that one, btw. 'cause me too!), your daughter didn't want to sleep (been there too!). He should have been understanding. And the fact that he would even throw your lingerie at you shows how pathetic he really is. I think you should tell him to take a hike and find someone that deserves you, someone that, if you were sick, would make THAT into something romantic by something as small as eating chicken noodle soup with you by candlelight, then curling up and watching a movie, even if it was something like Cinderella, with your daughter. THAT is sweet, at least in my eyes.
Good luck and if you wanna vent, you can reach me at flmomoftwins0724@yahoo.com
One mother to another!!!
2007-02-15 03:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new boyfriend. He should never treat you like that, especially if you weren't feeling good. Not to mention the fact that your little girls does NOT need to see her mom being treated that way. You know, she WILL chose the same type of man when she is grown, so find someone that respects you . . . .showing her what she should expect in a man when she is older.
2007-02-15 11:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple tell him it's over and move on. Find your some one who will appreciate you sexy you in that hot lingere. Seriously. Nuff said.
2007-02-15 11:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to control you completely and is succeeding through verbal and emotional abuse. You need to break off the relationship before he graduates to physical abuse. You and your daughter deserve better out of life than trying to please him.
2007-02-15 11:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an immature, selfish JERK!!
2007-02-15 11:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋