IF is posible that boys answer me to this question...Well,if your girlfrient is not redy to have sex and she's 14 and you are 18 how much you can wait her?if you know that is posible to take years... be verry sencer because I whant to know the true...
2007-02-15 03:19:24 · 29 answers · asked by madakill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just call the cops and tell them you are going out with an 18 year old, then by the time he comes out of jail you will be legal..........Date someone your own age!
2007-02-15 06:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wait till he marries you. There is no rush. Women should be cherished and put on a pedestal. He needs to be wooing you and proving to you he is a man. You are not a piece of meat. If he loves you, he should be able to hold you for hours or just stare into your eyes and enjoy the complexity of your young soul. You shouldn't even be asking this question, once you "give it up" all the mystery is gone. He will think less of the relationship when you have sex-it will then turn into him just waiting and pressuring you into doing it again. Make him wine you and dine you. If he doesn't love you enough to wait and marry you-he does not deserve to have your precious body and heart. Love yourself-love life-and don't get stuck-ask him if he knows what your dreams are-and how he is going to help you meet them.
2007-02-15 03:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a man of 50, will that do?
If you have a boyfriend that is pushing you into having sex and doesn't want to wait, you should think about getting another boyfriend. 18 is a male's sexual peak and they are too much into having sex sex sex. Most of them can't wait but if you can find one that will wait, no matter how long it takes, he's worth keeping.
Not enough girls out there will abstain from sex until marriage. To me, that's a quality of extreme value. It shows that you have your own mind and you know what you want in life. There are too many girls who will drop their pants without a second thought and I love a woman that knows what they want in life.
2007-02-15 03:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl....Boys can wait as long as it takes for you to be comfortable! If they won't, then they are not the right guy for you, and certainly not the right one to be doing that with.
Don't let anyone force you into it sooner than you are ready. You don't want to regret it. There is someone out there who would wait for you to be ready.
There is so much more to a good, healthy relationship than sex. I think it is better if you can build a good strong relationship before you do "it", then it makes doing it a lot more special and meaningful. If a guy can't understand it, then find one who can.
When you do decide to do it, make sure you have appropriate protection. I'm sure you don't want to be a mom yet!
2007-02-15 03:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by jeepgirl0385 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are 14, you are not mature enough to be making such decisions!! If the boy is 18, he is considered an adult. Since you are 14,you are a minor child, and if this guy is stupid enough to have sex with you, he can be charged with rape!!
2007-02-15 03:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage you to get far away from this guy. If your parents don't know about him, please let them know, this will ensure that he stays away if he's not thinking of doing time in prison. At that age, you sure bet, this guy is not thinking of having a future with you, but only looking to score. Don't be an addition to his list. You can be sure there are other girls. What if you get pregnant or get an STD, such as aids? I'm pretty sure he will disappear without a trace. Think of yourself and your future. What do you want for yourself, does it include illnesses, unwanted pregnancy after pregnancy, living a substandard life because no one wants to marry you after you have given yourself to every Tom, Dick and Harry? Thing about men, is that they will have sex with as many women as possible, but when time comes to marry, they want a pure, unspoilt woman. Chose purity and spare no pain or human emotion to reach where you need to get to in life.
2007-02-15 03:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Crista B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not wait probably .But I would not have a girlfriend who s 14 when I am 18 too .
2007-02-15 03:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy can wait forever especially if a girl is 14 having sex right now can get him arrested and girls of 14 are not ready for a sexual relationship. Wait no guy is going to die if he does not get sex and if he leaves you because of it you will know you are more mature then he is
You are young and life is ahead of you take care and take it easy and becareful
2007-02-15 03:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm a guy and my gf and i have been going out for over a year now.When I first got with her, she wan't ready either. But I loved her so much I waited for her to tell me when she was ready.Which took a year but it was worth the wait.So he can wait for a few years and if he can't respect ur decision then he don't need to be with u.If he loves u he will wait till ur ready.
2007-02-15 03:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by frog_redeye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my...a boy should wait as long as you desire... until you're ready. Until you're comfortable. If he does not...then you know he only wanted one thing and was not worth your time! Even if you need years! Even if youre saving it until marriage. A guy that truly loves you will stick by your side through everthing and wait as long at it takes. Then when that moment comes..it will be that much better, because then you'll know that he really loves you and is not in it just for that! Hope this helped a lil....... Remember its not about sex...... that only leads to babies and possibly diseases!
2007-02-15 03:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋