I love this girl and care for her but it is hard right now because she told me she loves me but at the same time she is kind of with someone else but she not want to be with them she want to be with me.. but she like the other person and does not wanan hurt them but she loves me not them how can I deal with this??...
2007-02-15 03:08:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to choose... she's is enjoying the time with both of you... if she hasn't made a decision within a week, tell her you're moving on... It's unfair on both you and the other guy... Either way she will hurt someone's feelings!
2007-02-15 03:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know this girl coz she hasnt written to me. I know you. You seem emotional and u genuinely seem to care for the girl. If the girl had really loved u she wouldnt have cared for anyone else. she would have been with you. But she isnt and her absence from your life is your answer. God never says no, He says someone better is waiting for you. And do you know what i beieve in. Its better to have loved with a passionate heart, and then breaking it into pieces, than making it wither away for someone who doesnt deserve it. So man, its ur choice. If u wanna live then chuck the girl and look at other girls. cheers.
2007-02-15 11:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she loves you so much she needs to give you a reason to wait for her, because otherwise she is just playing you, she wants both not one or the other. You shouldn't have to wait, specially if she cares about you and not the other person.
2007-02-15 11:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away she is not free and she is playing this other person and she could turn around and do it to you there are so many people out there you will find someone that loves you alone not someone who may eventually leave you for her ex or find someone she considers even better
You are worth a great deal be nice to yourself and find another single person out there :)
2007-02-15 11:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your problem you need to tell her to make her decision soon because she's probably only going to hurt the two of you by staying with him.
2007-02-15 11:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is scared to let of go of what is "comfortable" even though she may be miserable. It's that way for a lot of people. You will have to give her time and she will let go when she's ready.
2007-02-15 11:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she loves u then she need to leave dude and be with u...4get hurting someone cuz she doesnt realize but she is hurting u by being with him.
2007-02-15 11:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take her from others or forget her . If you stay between and do nothing you can not cope with this .
2007-02-15 11:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋