2007-02-15 03:08:28 · 28 answers · asked by jennifer j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push your religion on other people thats stupid. If you want a nice christian guy go find one don't try and convert one.
2007-02-15 03:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by badmitton69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....you can't. And if you are even wanting to, then that right there should be an indicator that you shouldn't be with this person. You shouldn't want to change someone, be it emotionally, physically, mentally, or spiritally. You should love them and accept them as who they are, not who YOU want them to be, just as they accept you. I'm a Pagan, I do not worship Christ or any of that. To be quite honest, I shun Christianity. However, my boyfriend is a Christian. Goes to church and all that. I accept him and he accepts me.
If you really feel the need to get your mate to accept and abide by your faith, then ask them to go to church with you once or something. At the same time, keep an open mind and maybe look into their faith.
2007-02-15 03:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live the way you know Jesus Christ would want you to live, and by that example, your mate might decide to check out this faith that gives you so much joy. " Let your light so shine before others------ ". I forget the rest, but you get the idea. And please do not preach at your mate, or nag. Just live an honest , non-hypocrytical life, and handle adversity with an assurance that your God will never leave you or forsake you. Your mate might just be convinced without you having to say too much.
2007-02-15 03:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Count 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard to do, i guess. But, just tell your mate that everything is faith. All that we do in this world are anchored on faith. Think about it.
Another is that if you think believing in Christ and abiding in faith would do you good then continue it, if not, then don't. But, give it a try first and make it long. See, I myself am a believer.
2007-02-15 03:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sanme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Just live your life your way, and accept that he will live his the way he sees fit. It is tough. My ex is a chrsitian, and I am an atheist. When we dated, she told me she could accept that. But, later, it was evident she could not.
What you have to do is decide whether or not you can stay in a relationship with that person. If you can't truly accept their beliefs, then end the relationship. If you can truly accept it, and not try to convert them, then go for it.
There is nothing wrong with talking about it. But, persuading and things of that nature are not recommended. Try to understand why he believes as he does. But, respect his beliefs.
Honestly though, it doesn't usually work out. I can testify to that. And(nothing against christians), it will likely be more of a problem for you than it will be for him. I never had a problem with my ex going to church and bible studies. But, the fact I would not go bothered her to no end.
2007-02-15 03:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking someone to change? If this was an important issue for you - then you should have said so when you met! (2) things NEVER EVER are to be in debate over is your Faith or Politics! Everyone has a right to believe how they want to, and noone should be made to change or be judged for not feeling the same as you do... Besides... who said you were right & they are wrong? Think about it!
2007-02-15 03:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is hard. The best way is to be persistent. If your mate has not accepted Christ and you have the power, you cannot go out with them if htey are not a Christian. Do not be unequally yoked. If you are in the position where you have no power, make it work, but be an example. Actually, be an example either way!
2007-02-15 03:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are this into religion and your mate isn't, then I think by pushing it on them, you'll push them away. Unfortunately the only way to get what you want is to actively look for what you want. If you feel that you can't love your mate fully because they aren't into religion as much as you, you need to find someone who is. Asking someone to be this religious is asking for trouble. You should go out and find what you really want.
2007-02-15 03:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Queenelizabeth79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you and your mate are a couple, you are still different individuals. Each person has the right to decide what he wants to believe, and how he wishes to live his life. Maybe by observing you, it might encourage him to try going to church and changing his lifestyle a bit. But if I were you, I wouldn't nag or preach to him. You might drive him away. It is his choice.....
2007-02-15 03:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by HENRY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live the example. It's not for you to make him. You can only abide by faith and pray.
2007-02-15 03:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lead by example. Faith is a gift that needs to be accepted by a person and can not be forced. Don't preach, teach.
2007-02-15 03:13:50 · answer #11 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋