Why is it so hard to find a guy that not only shares some of the same common interests and is sexually compatible with me?
I am a very physically active person, I do not watch tv…but I like the movies. I am an extremely sexual person and just can not find a guy that can “keep up” with me! Not really sure where to find a good guy! Where do you find good guys at that like rough sex?!
2007-02-15 02:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by supergoober 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the same way as you are. I am extremely physical and sexual. Most boyfriends of mine say it went too fast, although for me, sex and love don't have to have anything to do with each, I just enjoy sex. There is a guy out there for you. Just don't stick to one guy, start dating a lot of guys and you will find the right one. Don't get tied down to one guy, because that will limit your oppurtunites.
2007-02-15 02:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a kind of genetic thing - because men are programed from birth and in the genes to be the provider, the strong one, the one in command etc. etc. - I think this make many men afraid of strong women. But not all men - since I doubt you met all men yet - you still have a chance.
I think you might want to examine if you really want a relationship or if you just want someone to have sex with. Although it is possible to find both on a person - if you focus on the sex more than the relationship than that is what you get from someone.
After a while if all there is is sex and that is how you define yoru relationships than it gets old with that person if there is not an emotional connection. You might really like the intense feelings of a new guy, the early relationship feelings are very powerful but these feeling can fade as time goes on - and a true love replaces early love. If you can't get past that stage it can be tough.
As to rough sex - not sure what that is - I'm not sure that many people really want to be smacked around during sex. You might want to ease into that kind of stuff as you get to know the person so they can be comfortable being so exposed. ... or you could become a domenatrix and make lots of money satisfying means fantasies.
2007-02-15 02:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see i have the same problem except i can't find a woman, i asked on her but i didn't get a good answer maybe you should try an on-line dating site you never know, maybe they could match you up with someone locally that shares your interest. And by the way i wouldn't even know if i would like rough sex or not, I've never even had it.
2007-02-15 02:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll find out more than you want on this page.
Keep trying. You sound like someone who would be worth getting to know --am am sure you will run into someone who will be compatable.
The rough sex thing...I'm okay with that, but some men actually can feel demasculinated...I would give it a little time before you completely beat the tar out of them in bed...let them get comfortable in the race before you floor it...got me?
good luck!
2007-02-15 02:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight... you want a guy that won't watch TV but will watch movies and punch you in the face when you have sex three times a day, six days a week? I suggest contacting your local correctional facility and asking them for a parole roster. One of those men would fit the category nicely. Good luck with that.
2007-02-15 02:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 03:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys out there like that. I myself being 1 of them that likes and is very active. I think the problem is that you are looking in the wrong places
2007-02-15 02:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get 2 or 3 to keep you busy.
2007-02-15 02:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try talkin to your partner...tell him what he needs to do for you...don't just give up after the person doesn't do what you want...it takes time to figure out what a person likes..
2007-02-15 02:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because girls are too choosy they wan ta perfect guy in every aspect. I'm muscular and toned but not tall so i don't qualify for any girl
2007-02-15 02:20:55 · answer #10 · answered by Harry J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋