I have been dating 2 men and once and really like them both. A I started dating first then met B. B wants me to chose between the two of them. A knows a llittle bit about B but doesn't know I like him and that B wants me to chose. I like charcteristics about both of them and it is very difficult to chose. What do I do?
2007-02-15 02:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by rochport 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who says you need to choose?
Have you agreed to exclusivity with either of these men?
If not, then they should presume that you are dating other men...in much the same way that you should presume that they are dating other women. Just because they don't seem like they are does not mean they aren't - they will just not make an effort to correct your misconceptions while they continue to play the field.
Anyway, if you can't make up your mind between them, that's what you should tell B. If he can't live with it, then let him walk. As long as you don't promise exclusivity to A, then consider yourself free to date C, D, E, etc.
A caveat: keep things light if you're dating multiple men - that is, you should not be heavily involved (i.e., having sex with) with more than one man. You don't want to wind up on Montel, Maury, et. al. for a paternity test to determine who your baby's daddy is, ya know?
2007-02-15 02:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit silly but how about writing a pros and cons list for each of them to see which one looks better on paper? How about getting both of them (individually) to meet with your friends to get their opinions too? You need to choose - you cannot keep stringing both along and I'm amazed you've managed to get away with it so far.
2007-02-15 02:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm, the right guy for you is the one that wont preassure you that much.
Usually pick the sweet guy, because if hes not that sweet he must be a player, and players just go out with you until they find another better one.
2007-02-15 02:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say that you need to date each a little more to make the decision
2007-02-15 02:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know this is going to sound a bit lame but follow your heart as you will have to realy know and like this person to be abileto pick out of the two
2007-02-15 02:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by cristle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not careful and chose one, you will lose both of them. sorry for the truth hurts, Good luck!
2007-02-15 02:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list, pros and cons, other than that, be honest, which one do you find yourself thinking about the most, like when you wake up in the morning or go to sleep at night (when your alone, of coure) xxx
2007-02-15 02:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in the same boat as you.its not nice to play with peoples emotions.dump one or both of them.it is not fair and you would not like it done to you either would you?
2007-02-15 02:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by south_parker98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try C? I am confused....!
Just tell them both the situation and see what happens?
2007-02-15 02:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat....wish I could help, if you get a really good answer let me know!
Thanks
2007-02-15 02:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋