he was so sexually satisfying. like really , he did every thing the way i wanted him to without him knowing. my bf right now i love him and everything but he doesn't satisfy me like my ex did, my ex was so sensual and my bf is gentle and asks what i want him to do. what do i do?
2007-02-15 02:12:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what you do about your current situation... try talking.... but whatever you do you do NOT go back with your ex.
2007-02-15 02:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Never had a question i can really relate to. My ex "was" the best sex I ever had, literally. He knew my body more than anyone and would always know the right thing to do and when to do it. After him i started seeing a guy, and was quite disapointed. Unforunately it didn't work out with him for other reasons. But lately i find, the best thing to do is, let go. Do whatever you want, guide him to what you like. It's your body & your orgasm. Be in charge of it, and trust me the results will be VERY satisfying.
2007-02-15 10:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the SAME issue. I am dating a guy that is really nice and sweet but we are not even close to sexual desires. I like hard deep, wild crazy and he is slow and sensual. So I am interested to see what the answers are.
2007-02-15 10:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by supergoober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend what you want him to do. He could be better than your ex if you just guide him in the right direction. The fact that he's asking is a clear sign he's doing it for you why not let him and help him do it right.
2007-02-15 10:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist. Get medicated. Sex has no place in a satisfying life. You were told the wrong stuff growing up. So now grow up.
2007-02-15 10:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why this seem to be a problem for you....you don't like/love your ex. And you are dragging your new bf to the level of your ex just for the sex.
What do you do you ask?
What do you want? Sex or Love?
2007-02-15 10:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Israel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, guys need to be told what to do, and how to do it. Your ex, was one of rare ones. Just communicate to your current bf what turns you on and off. Your expressions, should tell him as well. Hope this helps, take care.
2007-02-15 10:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend now what you want there shouldn't be any secrets between the 2 of you and if you don't tell him then you'll get bored. I say tell him just be gentle when you tell him. I hope it all works out.
2007-02-15 10:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by jessie jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in time your bf will find all the right buttons to push..but it takes time., If you want something tell him, guide him.. be gentle and patient about it.. and it will happen
a new relationship is like wearing a new pair of shoes...
it takes awhile till you break them in till they feel good
enjoy
2007-02-15 10:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To funny its sad how so many people live in the past or what could be,or what could have been.Why don't you try and enjoy the one who loves you now and if there is problems in the bedroom talk to him as this is the only way he will be taught how to please you in the way you need so to be pleased
2007-02-15 10:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you like it, most will do what satisfys you. And you do the same in return
2007-02-15 10:16:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋