After all God only know when you'll be fully over them.
2007-02-15 02:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming he's your ex for good reasons, it's extremely important to move on now if your still in love with him. Our hearts try to over-rule our heads sometimes. the quicker you move on, the sooner you'll find someone or something to lessen the need for him. For me, it was more of a social thing, I found friends that I had been secluded from for years and just getting out socializing has made a world of difference to me. I call it therapy!
2007-02-15 02:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right to go into a relationship knowing you have feelings for someone else. It's not fair to that person in particular. What if you really liked someone but you knew they were thinking of someone else all the time. I'm sure that would hurt. You must be honest with the other person and tell them this or there will be no trust and honesty and that should always be part of a good relationship. Try to find yourself first and then try to find someone that will complement you and not complete you.
2007-02-15 10:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
You're not moving on at all if you're still in love with your ex. And it won't be fair to your new guy if you're still focused on someone else.
He won't get the love and attention that he deserves, and he did nothing to deserve to be treated like that.
Put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to date someone who was still focused on some other girl?
When you go to bed at night do you want your guy to be thinking about you? or his ex? When he smiles for no reason, do you want it to be because he has you? or because he used to have his ex?
and when buying gifts, do you want him to pick out something that his ex would have liked? or do you want him to pick out something that YOU would have liked?
I'm not saying that you need to stop acknowledging your ex's existance, but you need to have truly moved on if you're going to be in a relationship with someone else.
Put yourself in the new guys shoes...and that should give you the right answer.
2007-02-15 10:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by coastergirl189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No why mess with someone Else's head to much of that @#$# going on now a days.Let the bed get cold then move on.Fair to all involved.Trust me I have been a rebound on many occasions it hurts.
2007-02-15 10:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's ok. Just be honest to the guy if you start dating him, tell him you still are sorting out your feelings for your ex.
I think it may be best to move on in your mind first, before getting into another serious relationship.
2007-02-15 10:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way it would not be fair to the person you want to move on with. they would just be a rebound fling and they will only get their heart broken, ,maybe you may get over your ex but they will hate you for hurting them. you need to take the time to heal yourself before you can move on. in order for two people to be whole as one, each half needs to be whole on their own.
2007-02-15 10:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by cat_23au 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he still love you?I dated a guy over the summer and he cheated on me with two girls his ex and her friend. but i stil loved him and now im dating him again so I would say it fine Follow Your Heart!!!
2007-02-15 10:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are not using the new guy to make your ex jealous, yes
2007-02-15 10:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its ok
2007-02-15 10:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋