So I broke up with a guy I loved because of my friends..stupid reason I know..but now he barely looks at me, I know he hates me but how can I get him to stop? I mean, i dont see him as a b/f anymore but I still care. Id still care if he fell down, tripped, or something like fail a class. But I wonder if he hates me, it seems like he does but I dunno.
Meanwhile, theres this other guy that seems interested in me but has a g/f. Now what?! His gf is close friends with my friends so I couldnt live with myself if I made them break up. But I feel so alone, I try to find another but I cant forget those two. Anyone care to help?
2007-02-15 02:10:00 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By your own admission you've stated that you were wrong and stupid. Now you want your ex to just pretend like everything is fine between the two of you. You need to stop and think of how you would've felt if he just dumped you because of his friends.
How old are you that you let your friends dictate your life to you? You really need to grow up and get yourself together. Why would you want to be with someone else? What's going to happen when the next guy comes along and for whatever reason your friends feel you need to dump him, too? Right now, you're playing childish games with peoples feelings.
As far as your ex wanting to be or being your friend, it may come a day when he'll be willing but right now he probably doesn't want to be bothered with you at all. You need to leave him alone and let him go on with his life without you trying to be some fake friend just to make yourself feel better.
The other guy that has a girlfriend, more than likely knows all about you and isn't going to dump his girl for you. His girl may not be willing to give him up that easily to you either. I can almost be sure that both of them know what you did and how you are and therefore they're not breaking up for you. Him being interested in you is more than likely all in your mind.
Best advised for you is grow up!
2007-02-15 02:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make me sick, you are disgusting ! pathetic and hoplessly lassy ! How God Damned gutless are you ! Your a joke you really should be slapped ! but you probably have no idea why everyone thiks so ! Do you ! Exactly - life is going to be very hard in the future - and you deserve all thats coming you disgusting spoilt little ho !
Now you should just log onto the sick dude with the tiny penis ! and watch that you whore !
2007-02-15 10:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok ok calm down uhh this guy that you broke up with, say i feel like you have been avoiding me lately, why? im sorry if i made you mad, but i dont think we are a good coulple we are too good of friends you are an awesome person and i would never forgive myself if i fed that up..........and for the other wit the girl
write him a letter to see how he feels about you and wait it out if u want to but please dont break them up anyways girl why dont you move on and find some one different honey, i know you can get out there and leve the drama behind!
2007-02-15 10:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have alot on your plate umm first try talking to this guy that you dumped and try to explain why you broke up with him. Ask him if he dislikes you now.You have to listen to what he has to say also. Listen dont do all the talking. Are you sure that you loved him? If i loved someone i wouldnt break their heart because of my friends.Your friends cant control your life Its YOURS not theirs.Well Good Luck!!
2007-02-15 10:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move and forget about the other two especially the guy with a girlfriend. There are so many guys out there to choose from.
2007-02-15 10:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill yourself. Or grow up. Sometimes people end up not liking you. You have to accept that. As for the guy with a gf, leave him alone. If they break up and he asks you out, date him, otherwise leave it alone.
2007-02-15 10:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Chris R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You suffer from Princess Syndrome, a condition brought on by a father who groomed a daughter to get everything her little heart desires. You need therapy and fast. Your daddy needs to focus on a son. I need to get out of here.
2007-02-15 10:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can just ask him, the dude you think hates you, it's okay, dont worry.
Just say sorry and say you just want to remain really good friends still though.
2007-02-15 10:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for what you want most, and explain everything to your friends just before you do it.
2007-02-15 10:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋