"Falling" implies losing control of your emotions. Maybe love is best when it is something to give, not something to get, and the more you give, the more you get, and then the more you have to give to others. And you don't need to confine your love to one person or obsess on one person or be possessive. [BTW I am talking about love, not about sex - they are not the same thing.]
2007-02-15 02:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by fra59e 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As to building a family, there is no good reason to assume that you can only enjoy family when it is one man and one woman. I have known people who created a family among three people, and they are some of the sanest and most stable and kindest people I have ever met.
2007-02-15 03:26:58 · update #1
Also, they are raising beautiful children in a happy healthy home environment of love and mutual respect.
2007-02-15 03:29:16 · update #2
its a good thing and its ok to fall in love just take it day by day and get to know a person and decide if its best to be friends or have more than friendship.inless its unhealthy realtionship and have been in the past. and u been hurt by this person and have had too many interferences and people causing problems in your life realtionship and happiness and causing trouble and turning on you and others on you then move on to someone else
2007-02-22 13:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole falling thing can be translated in many ways. There's you take on it, then there's mine. By falling in love I don't see it as loosing control of your emotions, but more of being surrounded by the one emotion, hence falling "in" love. You don't need to give all your love to one person, you are right with that, but there are different levels of love and you should only be on the romantic level with one person. The other types of love feel free to spread all you want, like you said the more you give the more you get and you can never have enough or too much.
2007-02-15 02:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I know theyre not the same thing. But it all depends when your ready to FALL inlove. If you think its the right time, go for it. I wouldnt yet because losing control over your emotions is one of the hardest things in life to deal with. But if you find someone thats just......worth losing a heart or you feel wont break your heart...fall..fall upon the loving clouds of surrender. BE CAREFUL THO!--myspace.com/amethystnightx
Much Love
~*Nikki*~
2007-02-15 02:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you fall, you don't think. you just do. so you give and not expect anything. yes, it is a good thing to fall in love, because then you can feel the rush of life, you can feel really alive. it is not worth living a life if you try to control your emotions.
2007-02-15 02:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by bellybutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont "let" yourself fall in love, its uncontrollable. You cant help who you like or love so the person you fall for might me someone you never expected yourself to fall for. And falling love is a good thing even if you do get hurt. "Its better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all"
2007-02-15 02:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a good feeling to fall in love and it doesnt mean your
losing your emotion.you can love many different things
you can love many people even a thousand people
for love has many meaning
but you have to focus that one kind of love to that especial person
to build that we called family the fabric of our society
2007-02-15 02:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love every day, with every beautiful thing that you see and every person you deem worthy....To choose love is to choose life! Consider the alternative.
2007-02-15 02:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by findingselflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think falling is really just a phrase - not more than that.
I'm not sure you have much control over who you "fall" in love with. It just kind of happens.
2007-02-15 02:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not do some thing particular yet he treats me with appreciate and listens when I communicate. which means lots more beneficial to me than figuring out to purchase me presents like vegetation, etc. Oh and as i love chocolate, he will wonder me with my conventional chocolate bar from time to time!
2016-12-04 05:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of u can't control yourself from falling in love, once u find the one u have been looking for no matter how hard u fight it, it will still going to happen.
2007-02-15 02:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋