What do I do?Does anyone have the same problem?I need tips
2007-02-15 02:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey i have exactly the same problem. when i'm at school around my boyfriend, he only treats me like his friend instead of his girlfriend. i think the reason for this is because i'm his first girlfriend and he's not that experienced. i've learned that guys are different than us girls and they need more space then we do. his buddies probably give him a really hard time about it so he's trying to act tough and i hate to say it, but that cuts the cuddly stuff out at school. just appreciate the time outside of school that he treats you good. i've learned that if you complain about it too much, he's gonna get fed up with trying to please everybody and he might think that your relationship isn't working out, even though it is.
good luck ^_^
2007-02-15 02:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks as if that mind game is being played. he knows females has the tendancies to talk to their friends about their relationships, some do not all, and the guys know that. They try to show a good impression to show the girls that they the man and that they are good guys. But when a guy is around his people with you then you know that there are somethings that he has probably said to them that he showing that he don't care. They don't want to show a soft side around their friends. some guys have a way with girls and some guys have game. You might need totalk with him cause that sounds to me you got an issue that don't need yahoo answers to help. he just stuck up and I would not waste my time with that guy. But it is your life so live your life screw him, act like he don't exist. Thats how you do that!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 02:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by sexifemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal immature male.
All I can tell you is, don't be cute with him again until he's a little less hard-nosed around his friends. You can try this without telling him how badly you feel and why you're doing it, and he'll still catch on, but that could take three years or more, so your best bet is to talk about your feelings-
both of your feelings, that is.
If you love him, and you don't have to, hon, this is just if you do, you'll see that he needs these situations and converstions in order to grow up, and that he really can't do that without experience.
Normal, dear. Normal, but get it fixed.
2007-02-15 02:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I handled a situation like that is you do them like they do you...My philosophy is unless you did the person the way they do you, they wont understand what or how it feels unless someone does it to them. Now when it happens and they try to get in your face about it, u tell him exactly "this is what u did to me and this is how u treat me when u do it me"...it works everytime...then either they are gonna change their behavior or they will continue to treat you that way, either you will deal with it or you wont...or better yet...just dont go with him to his friends house...that will cut all that out...
2007-02-15 02:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by shawntelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called: an eye for an eye. Treat him the same he acts around his friends and see if he likes that.
2007-02-15 02:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 03:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would bring it to his attention, but it does seem like a macho thing. If he can atleast acknowlege your presence and atleast pays you some attention then don't feed into it. That is unless he is disrespecting you in front of them, but other than that I don't think it is that bad.
2007-02-15 02:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a macho thing - he doesn't want to seem whipped in front of his friends. Confront him ( in a nice way) and it will probably go away.
2007-02-15 02:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yo man its a guy thing it not that he don't like you he just likes to mess around some thimes if you don't let him he'ill beome a zombie trust me (expanice from lastest realtionship)
2007-02-15 02:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by tauntonkaleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural for a guy to show off to a girl with his friends but icnoring you talk to him and tell him how you feel about that and if he doesent improve then you need to dump him
2007-02-15 02:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋