Getting stood up by your date
or
Getting turned down for a date
You Choose?
2007-02-15 01:39:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stood up i can imagine as it means you went to a lot of effort and to not turn up is just plain cruel
2007-02-15 01:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting stood up, not only do you feel bad... but you also look a fool!
Not nice either one but been stood up is far worse of the two. In reality we all have been and get turned down... if we are honest!
2007-02-15 02:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being stood up is worse. Atleast if you were turned down then you won't be stood up. But waiting for someone who didn't have the guts to say that they didn't want to go out is worse because your expecting something that's not going to happen.
2007-02-15 02:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting stood up for a date is worse. At least if they turn you down for a date they are being honest. But by being stood up for a date, is a cruel thing to do to someone.
2007-02-15 01:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting stood up because they just couldn't tell you in your face. At least if they turn you down your not getting ready and waiting. And it skips some feelings. When your stood up your led down a wrong road and than snapped back. When your turned down you may feel a little rejection or be a littl einsecure, but at least they coudl tell you the truth. I think being stood up woul dworsen those feelings.
2007-02-15 01:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its worse to be stood up,as you've had the excitment of getting ready the nerves of meeting your date then the humiliation of being stood up. At least if you get turned down its over straight away.
2007-02-15 01:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by ROGER E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stood up its worse then saying no to you feel like you can have something with that person and then you find out he or her stood you up that hurts worse then him or her saying no its like a guy or a girl that likes cigarettes if you start giving him or her some and then you take it a way you will miss it but if you never had it in the first place then you won't miss it
2007-02-15 01:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stood up. I hate waiting. Turned down is no problem I got a thousand options
2007-02-15 03:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK GETTING STOOD UP WOULD BE WORSE. AT LEAST IF YOU GET TURNED DOWN, THE PERSON HAD THE DECENCY TO TELL YOU. WHERE AS THE OTHER JUST WENT ALONG WITH IT...............VERY MEAN
2007-02-15 02:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting stood up definatley because at least the person who turned you down iss being honest but the one who didnt show up lied to you and you will feel like a fool because of it
2007-02-15 02:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by quertioning? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋