My whole life i was a very crazy person...i was living a wild lifestyle of partying and pretty much everything you can imagine. Then just when i calmed down and my life was getting quiet i met a girl. This girl was amazing and i pretty much fell imn Love with her at first sight. This love however was not how all my other "love" was. she was very attractive but i wasnt wasnt even looking at her in a physical way. i was simply in love with her as a being.
I then found out she was a very strict christian and we couldnt have any kind of relationship because although i am trying to accept God into my life im not at her level of spirituality. I am a very successful musician and Model so it isnt a physical or human thing.
But why would God introduce me to the girl of my dreams and never have it in his plans to connect us???
2007-02-15 01:33:09 · 31 answers · asked by Jrock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM NOT MARRIED!!!!
2007-02-15 01:41:15 · update #1
maybe you just want what you can't have, and I don't mean this girl, I mean what she represents, morality and spiritual calm. If you are just connecting with 'god' to get close to her, then you are connecting with nothing. Good luck with your journey though.
2007-02-15 01:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She may well have been introduced into your life because that is in God's plans to change you - He'll use her.
Whatever spiritual level you're at shouldn't change a relationship and shouldn't prevent one happening. One minute she might be down and the next you're up on the spiritual level so can be there to pray with and support her. And vice versa. It's a journey.
2007-02-15 11:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think God doesn't have it in His plans for you two to connect? Seems like you've already connected on some level. Maybe that's the beauty of it all - He's brought you into contact with someone who you can love for who she is and she would have a stabilizing effect on you.
Who said you are not at her level of spirituality? Why would you need to be anyway? As a Christian, she'd most likely be looking for someone who shares her same values and who is in an honest relationship with Jesus Christ. She isn't your measuring stick for spirituality - Jesus is and only Him. As long as you are looking at someone else to see how you measure up, you're going to encounter heartache. Jesus extends mercy and grace to us and says that He accepts us even though we could never measure up. Its our human reasoning that says, "I'm not good enough and I never will be."
So, rejoice! God has opened a door for you with this girl. Talk to Him about it and let him show you the way for the relationship to proceed.
I wish you all the best!
2007-02-15 09:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by ginparis2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BIBLE clearly tells you not to be unequally yoke which means that if your not saved and she is than your unequally yoked. Basically you'll pull her down spiritually I'm not saying that you will but that is what will happen. Try going to church get saved if your not and then see what will happen. Think about it this way maybe GOD wanted you to be around her so she could bring you up spiritually. She's correct sorry I'm just telling you what she's trying to tell you. Heaven is a whole alot better than hell. If you love her than you would see her point.
2007-02-15 09:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by jessie jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really isnt the girl of your dreams you just may think she is! there maybe someone else out there that was made for you! if she doesnt want to be with you becaus eyou and her arent on the same level then she isnt worth spending time with! She should be the lucky one not you! just look at it this way, if God wants it to work out then it will if he doesnt then so be it. God takes stuff away, not to punish you, but beacuse he thinks he has something better to give you! always remeber that! k!
2007-02-15 09:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Oh_man_thats_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe God has someone else picked out for each of you. If you are truly trying to trust God in your life, THEN TRUST GOD IN YOUR LIFE. Just because you think she is perfect for you, doesn't make it so. Just look at how many divorces there are today of people who thought they were marrying the perfect mate. God may just have something even better in mind for you. Keep working on your relationship with Him and let Him keep working on your other relationships.
2007-02-15 09:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He did it to show you that the way you were living was disgraceful, and that there are better things in life than just partying and sleeping around. He showed you what you can have if you straighten yourself out. And who knows what my happen. If you show her that you are legitimately trying to get God into your life she will probably appreciate that very much. Especially if she was the inspiration. Don't count her out until you know how she feels.
2007-02-15 09:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by unrevealed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satan is real too. who knows he might have played a part in this if either of them . i think they both leave some stuff up to chance .
i can tell you no one should look at another Christan and think i am not as advanced as them or i am not as good a christian as them . most surely no one ever should say he is not on the same level as me for i am a better Christan .
as a christian you should understand the story of the seeds falling on different parts of the ground.
read about the seeds and faith and see which seed you are .
another thing is don't let anyone tell you your less or more of a Christan then they are . we are not to judge and i think that applies to ourselves too.
2007-02-15 09:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her to church to show her you care. There is a God and He loves you and has plans for you. He knows everything that will happen and has something in store for you. Give it some time, if the feeling isn't mutual just know that she might not be the one and that's O.K. God knows what He's doing, put your faith and Him and let Him lead the way. If it wasn't meant to be, it just wasn't meant to be.
2007-02-15 09:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be a goal that you need to set for yourself, not to love the lord so you can be with her but jsut that you need to love the lord. The rest will fall into place when the time is right. God knows your wants and your needs and sometimes our time isnt his time...i hope this helps even a small amount. take time to pray about where he wants you to be. it may not be where you think
2007-02-15 09:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by G L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"God acts in a mysterious way", they say! So, what about composing a song on this theme? Who knows, He might lead you two into a further deeper and wonderful level of love and affecttion.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 09:40:14 · answer #11 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋