Why do women feel the need to be with a bad guy, one who treats like crap or has a kid with them and leaves them to deal with it. Then they want to get with a nice guy, but offten they feel they can't handel a nice guy showing them love and respect or they call them a clinger, when in fact they just want to show there love for that girl that has been hurt, a true nice guy will not hold your past against you and will help support you in anyway he can.
It makes it hard for a guy who wants to show their love for a women that has been hurt because most women don't or won't show there love for the nice guy and in turn makes him feel like he has done something wrong or un wanted.
I know I have feelings towards a women that has a child, but she has closed off her feelings because she does not want to be hurt, I know in time she will open up, and I will take what feelings she can give me, but if your on to a good thing why hold off?
2007-02-15 01:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by funknomega 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women have this diluted belief that love is magic. They believe that if they love this jack@ss enough somehow he will magically become a princess.
It starts in childhood, the story of the princess kissing the frog and he magically becomes a handsome prince. Or like Beauty and the Beast, her love can change this monster into a handsome prince. Women believe crap like that happens, they want to think their love is special, they have the magic key to turning this monster into a gentlemen. It just isn't true.
Nice guys present no challenge, which is ultimately what they want.
2007-02-15 01:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are the same, so to categorize all of us in one group is unfair! My opinion on your question is that some women have a low self-esteem and settle for what they think they deserve. So just be patient and take things slow. Pressing someone into a relationship they are not ready for will only break your heart in the long run!
2007-02-15 01:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Karen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`ve always wanted the nice guy but you know you cannot read in people`s heart to know if he was wearing a mask to attract you.....sometimes they disguise themselves in such a way that they seem so sincere, so angelic...afterwards they show their true image....and it`s then that the we, girls feel the pain....
yes it is very painful and heartbreaking to go through such a situation....
Loving someone with the mask on....and when the mask falls....everything just seem incomprehensible, so confused, so unreal, so painful.....
and the words do not come out....only tears can translate what we`ve been through....
2007-02-15 02:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason women are attracted to the bad boy type, it certainly isnt how they treat them which most of the time is rotten, Im not 100% sure.
2007-02-15 01:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a outstanding guy does no longer advise being a testosterone-loose dishrag, that's what one of those number of adult adult males imagine. a outstanding guy can nevertheless have swagger, be eye-catching, be humorous, do bold issues, etc. i recognize a guy who rides motorcycles, jumps out of airplanes and has weekly suppers at the same time with his monther, case in point. "undesirable" to me are those adult adult males who beat women individuals up, like manipulating women individuals because skill makes them experience sturdy, etc...
2016-11-03 12:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls in general have low self esteem and don't feel good enough for a nice guy , so they go for a bad guy instead.
2007-02-15 01:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sporadic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you all the ******* way!!!
2007-02-15 03:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋