I've been dating this guy for several months. We see each other about 2 or 3 wknds a month because we live about an hour away. I have met a few of his friends and briefly his parents. We do have sex, but its not the focus when we see each other. In the first few months he called me daily. Now, he calls much less often. For Valentines, I saw him the weekend before and he didn't give me anything. On Valentines Day he didn't even call. When he introduces me, he introduces me as his "friend." I'm disappointed don't even feel like calling him right now. perhaps I should just move on and forget about him or am I just over reacting?
2007-02-15 01:32:16 · 24 answers · asked by Lana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's pretty clear to me based on how he introduces you as his 'friend' that he doesn't plan to commit to an exclusive relationship anytime soon. He's probably having sex with you as often as he cares too, and just wants to keep things casual. His failure to acknowledge valentine's day is a good indicator that he doesn't plan to make an effort to 'romance you'. An hour apart is not a long distance...he should have been able to make a personal visit on v-day. He's not calling that often anymore and has probably lost interest. It's probably just him and how he handles relationships. Don't internalize this as something you've done or haven't done...it's probably just the way he is. You need someone more emotionally available. He wants it casual....so accomodate him and quit making a big deal of anything...him, the relationship, plans he wants to make, etc. Do your own thing and try to put the relationship behind you. I wouldn't give him the consideration of even conveying my feelings either. Just walk on, let your answering machine take his messages, and return his calls after the weekend has passed. Good Luck
2007-02-15 01:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you should play it cool for a while, don't stress. Since Valentines Day was on a Wednesday this year. He might have
bought you something and is going to give it to you this weekend. Men often call more the first few months also remember guys do not like to talk on the phone for hours like us girls do. Good luck..
2007-02-15 01:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it will be in the curling area. a minimum of they are both ice activities. I went to the curling area some days in the past and there are not any questions there about curling. some about a curling iron. some thing else are as undesirable as different ones the following. i have tried to respond to the questions people ask regardless of in the adventure that they don't look about hockey from time to time. i do not fairly supply solid solutions to them besides the undeniable fact that. I informed someone in Dubai the former day to bypass to the community hockey area to get shampoo.
2016-12-04 05:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry honey but you need to move on your more special than a friend and if he cant' see that then its his own loss. Let him go if he really wants you he will miss you but don't give in play it up a little bit till you really know if he cares. If he don't then don't worry about it I'm sure your gonna find someone who loves you for you. Life is too short to play games. good luck!
2007-02-15 01:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON i mean he didnt even get you a cardfor valentines day thats kinda messed up i mean and he calls you his "friend" umm wow ok you can find soooo much better
2007-02-15 01:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by sexyfufunater89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he thinks of you as a friend "with benefits". There is nothing wrong with that if it is right for both people but it doesn't sound like that is what you want. You need to discuss with him if he feels there is a relationship and where it is going to go. Communication is important.
2007-02-15 01:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by mistraybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it rest awhile,. Maybe he is the type who believes that Valentines day is for couples who have been together for a longer amount of time. (NO excuse in my book!) When you do see him, I would NOT have a sexual encounter. Let time be your answer
2007-02-15 01:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Karen S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This guy calls you his friend?? Then he has no feelings for you other than a booty call. Go find a guy who wants to be with you
2007-02-15 01:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Why give him him an important role in your life when he cant even respect you for who you are? He is just using you! You dont deserve it, cut your losses and move on. Theres better men out there I promise!
2007-02-15 01:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not over reacting. if a guy does that, then that means something. either that he doesn't want his friends to know he's dating you, or that he really does consider you a friend, but with added perks. most likely, he is seeing someone else, as should you. if he wants to go, then let him.
2007-02-15 01:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by gizmoe27 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋