2007-02-15 01:30:13 · 14 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm happily married and have a baby but why am I surprised to know that my ex has finally moved on?
2007-02-15 01:36:39 · update #1
Maybe you might still have some feelings about him not saying that you want him back but probably it might be a friendship thing maybe you still care for him as a friend and just because things didn't work out between the 2 of you maybe you still want the best for him.
2007-02-15 01:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by jessie jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're deluding your self into believing you are the ideal element for this guy. He has moved on and you haven't any longer. If, in 4 years, he has no longer observed as you or asked when you on a similar time as quickly as, then the breakup became painful. If he's well mannered, he will take it as burning desire to have him lower back. If he rejects you, then it is going to wreck you as lots or greater suitable than him. undergo in suggestions, he has moved on without you. If he's no longer well mannered, the whole project would take an unpleasant turn. think of roughly this from the different area of the gender element. If some guy became calling you persistently after breaking apart with you 4 years in the past and then confirmed up on your doorstep, might you no longer call the police and characteristic them pursue stalking costs against him. Now, why am I being so unjustly cruel to you, you're in all probability asking? i elect you to save your self the embarrassment of performing so pitiful you will possibly need to pursue somebody who's 4 years out of your existence. think of the way it is going to seem once you seem earlier him and his GF right this moment. you will seem so pathetic. The repeated calls and showing up at his place of residing point out some extreme subject in police eyes.you will desire to even get 30 days of psych eval to fulfill the courts. heavily, do no longer take those innovations the incorrect way. you're in all probability a good guy or woman with valid intentions, even though it might desire to finally end up reflecting very poorly on you and your situations. enable the guy flow. Obsessing on what you had with him is in simple terms denying the certainty YOU dropped him for some reason. attempt and undergo in suggestions what that reason is. some issues at the instant are not meant to heal without scar and that's one that curiously can not flow away, no rely how annoying you attempt.
2016-12-17 10:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no.
You know it's going to happen, sooner or later. Sometimes it's hard and other times it's easy, depends on how much love you have put in to your last relationship.
I know when it was over between me and my ex I was very hurt even heart broken, but I did not hate her because she helped me though a hard time in my life and helped me get back on top of my life, she told me she was not ready for a full on relationship, a month later she got with an other bloke and they are in a relationship now going on for 3 months now, I wished them good luck and I hoped the best for them. It hurt me even more saying that but in the long term I feel it's better to know in your self that you did the right thing by saying good luck, than trying to stop them from moving on.
Just remember it's not your loss it's there loss.
and by showing them you are happy for them will let them know your over him/her and you can move on. It will still hurt for a little while but there are other people in the world who have been through harder times. And as humans we have a funny way of adapting and moving on.
So wish them good luck, close that chapter in your life, move on, find your self someone new and enjoy your self.
2007-02-15 01:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by funknomega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gawd im sorry but do you know how arrogant that sounds? geez, you must be a heck of a person. heck we all have 1 choice, to move on. soiling your undies sucks, but sitting in em afterwards is way worse. try moving on when you look at 3 beautiful babes every day. you can only move so far away. the way it wuzzz.
2007-02-15 01:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by l8ntpianist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really. When you are with someone the first thing that happens is that you imagine the rest of your life with them. Depending on how long you are with them you add to your imaginary future or dreams of the future. When it all goes south it takes time to undo these dreams. So just give yourself time the suprise will fade with the dream.
2007-02-15 01:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It just means that you actually didn't wanna dump him. You figured he'd beg to come back. Now that he's playing another Game? If you were better for it? You wouldn't be asking this question.
2007-02-15 01:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be surprised
and ex is an ex who cares what they do or who they see
there is no tie between the 2 of you anymore
2007-02-15 01:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, everytime we split with someone, it's hard for us to see them move on with someone else. We all have that feeling like "what does she have, or do, that I didn't. " You'll get past it, just hang in there. Sorry for the split!
2007-02-15 01:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by PrettyAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not weird at all. my ex married somebody else maybe six month after we broke up, and then a while later he divorced her and now he is begging me to take him back.
2007-02-15 01:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He moved on along time ago....you just weren't aware of it.
You have to start thinking of you now....make yourself available get him out of your mine...one day at a time.
2007-02-15 01:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋