how am i supposed to feel? i have a boyfriend of two years and latley i think i like another man. i know this man likes me back which makes it even harder, yet still, im in love with my boyfriend. i know i should stick with my current bf however it is hard when u fantasise about another man. what should i do?
2007-02-15 00:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is so normal.. especially in long term realtionships.. basicly you see other men and you may not like them as much as you like your bf but you cant help but be curious!.. ofcourse.. its natural for you to be feeling this.. you want to know if the grass is greener on the otherside..
if i were you i would be adventurous and come up with something new (that youve never done before) to do with your current boyfriend. it should make you just focus on your bf n not the other guy.. otherwise maybe you should think about if your bf is the guy for you good luck i hope that helped :)
2007-02-15 00:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with scoping out the competition. Please recognize that any new attraction is fun. Remember that feeling with your current bf? Why not try to put some of the old romance feeling or fun by going back to the place where you first met or go through old pictures. Use the way this guy makes you feel to put freshness and feeling back into your existing relationship. That is if you really love this guy. But please if you are not happy with your present bf, either work on it or break up. Don't cheat on him. How would you feel if he cheated on you? Maybe answering this question will be the push you need to realize how much he means to you. And lastly, there is nothing wrong with fantasizing about other people if that is all you do.
2007-02-15 00:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think that it is regular for any female to feel this way because I even find myself attracted to other males and I have a bf too. Plus I'm quite sure that he even likes some other female, but neither one of you take actions on these feelings because it's just lust and you'll get over it eventually.
2007-02-15 01:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time apart from your boyfriend. Your heart will direct you which one to choose. it will be the one you miss most, the one u think oof when you wake up adn the last person you think when you sleep. Dont let lust break up a good relationship. I fantasize about being a millionaire so quitting my current job isnt gonna bring me closer to that. You fantasize about this other guy but who says he will be anything like your current guy.
2007-02-15 00:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want sex because you're egocentric. what's new? you're nonetheless a newborn that lives off of leisure and not in any respect duty! you fairly do not care about each and each and every individual else because you're the middle of the universe. it is the reason youthful maximum persons fail at relationships! you do not have the adulthood to easily supply some thing to each and each and every individual else because your entire purpose is - YOU! you're attracted to different adult men using egocentric want of gender validation! and also you ask your self why you're puzzled? you're puzzled because you do not have a freak'n clue what existence is about. (that is not any longer about YOU!)
2016-12-04 05:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love your boyfriend but your not in love with him or you wouldn't fantasize about another man.......Sorry, not what you want to hear I'm sure but true!
2007-02-15 00:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing....honestly I think it is best not to break everything apart. stick with what you have and see what happens. Maybe this other guy is just wanting sex....which is more than likely what is happening.
2007-02-15 00:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should stay with the person you really love because if you leave your boyfriend and try with that other boy you like he might not really like you and just want booty soo i say you stay with your boyfriend of two years and forget about that other guy
2007-02-15 00:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by sexyfufunater89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you hate it when you cant have something. you could cheat on your boyfriend, the one you love so much. forget about the other man. unless you really dont love your boyfriend. then go for it.
2007-02-15 00:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, be honest with both people and with yourself. If you are getting attracted by another you can not ignore that. Face it and be kind.
2007-02-15 00:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋